I want to find someone who is compatible in all aspects of my life. Mentally, spiritually, physically, and sexually.

I try not to just bring up sex out of the blue, but you know as well as I, sometimes a little flirting ensues and the discussion turns sexual.

I feel that this is a natural way for two people to determine sexual compatibility. Sometimes it works out into a great discussion, and other times it ends all contact, whatever.

Guess what I want to know is, do people consider talking about sex up front a bad thing? And by up front I mean after an hour or so of talking. Not the immediate, "Hey baby, what's your name? Do you take it in the pooper?"

Just looking for other points of view on this.

Maybe I'm old school but...
I think you should wait more than an hour to discuss
those things. Maybe even days...
Nothing wrong with discussing it though- just a matter of timing.
JMO

i think it should come up naturally in a conversation. i dont think it hsould be "on the agenda" with a time limit. but personally, if a guy brings it up fairly soon into a conversation, i generally back up and cut off any further conversation.

A time ago when I was out and about, I would approch that subject with a joke, something true but make it a joke, that way you can guage their reaction to it and it make the transition in that topic easier and more fun. And if you offend them you can recover by saying that you weren't trying to offend and was just trying to make a joke then play off something funny about failing and looking like an idiot and you still have a good chance.

But I have found that if your not vulger and Creepy about it then if your on a date or just met someone, you can talk about anything, as long as you approch it right.

But its been a long time sence I've tried the dating thing so I maybe out dated.