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Topic: Could anyone help ???
Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:02 PM
Even though it has been 3 months since my ex and split up. Considering it all i'm not quite over it. although she has moved on found another guy and at times it eats me up inside.. I'm not trying to make people feel sorry for me or anything. Only thing that i can think of perhaps in time the pain would ease.

Elizabeth98999 Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 393	Mon 01/28/08 08:03 PM
It will..you'll see.

rebecca1210 Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 231	Mon 01/28/08 08:03 PM
Hang in there..it will

jhitchco Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 463	Mon 01/28/08 08:04 PM
It will my friend. When my wife left me for my bestfriend. It took forever to get over it and it hurt but in time the pain ceases and you move on

Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:04 PM
Thanks. maybe this was a thing that i shoul'nt of posted.

peachiegirl28 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 19292	Mon 01/28/08 08:04 PM
itll get better....promise

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 01/28/08 08:04 PM
Even though it has been 3 months since my ex and split up. Considering it all i'm not quite over it. although she has moved on found another guy and at times it eats me up inside.. I'm not trying to make people feel sorry for me or anything. Only thing that i can think of perhaps in time the pain would ease. You'll get over it, don't dwell on it though, just move on.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 01/28/08 08:04 PM
Easier said than done, it takes time to heal.

Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:06 PM
Yeah, the worse part about it was. I helped her get the Job at where i work... so it won't be as easy as i hoped.

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Mon 01/28/08 08:06 PM
Break ups are hard. But try things like thinking about ducks, or wondering why dogs sniff each others asses, or you could just try and look at rebecca1210's smile.

randy912 Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 405	Mon 01/28/08 08:09 PM
Yeah, the worse part about it was. I helped her get the Job at where i work... so it won't be as easy as i hoped. Just be friends if you can and move on if she has someone else , it will get better , trust me I know .... it is always best to leave someone a friend and never hate , do not have hate .... it ruins lives more than anything...

rebecca1210 Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 231	Mon 01/28/08 08:10 PM
Break ups are hard. But try things like thinking about ducks, or wondering why dogs sniff each others asses, or you could just try and look at rebecca1210's smile. Thanks...

jonlaw Joined Sat 06/23/07 Posts: 218	Mon 01/28/08 08:11 PM
At the end of it all you will have gained more strength. Good luck my friend

rebecca1210 Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 231	Mon 01/28/08 08:11 PM
Yeah, the worse part about it was. I helped her get the Job at where i work... so it won't be as easy as i hoped. YIKES! Why would you do that? lol That is going to be TUFF!

Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:11 PM
Yeah, I have been working on the whole friends ordeal, but im not going out of my way to do so.... Not trying to be mean but maybe that will be easier to do once i get over this feeling.

Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:12 PM
Yeah, the worse part about it was. I helped her get the Job at where i work... so it won't be as easy as i hoped. YIKES! Why would you do that? lol That is going to be TUFF! Well We have been dating over a year, so i thoiught heck why not things are going great with us! hahaha but we live and learn.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 01/28/08 08:16 PM
another u r among many

rebecca1210 Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 231	Mon 01/28/08 08:16 PM
Yes..Good Luck to you

randy912 Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 405	Mon 01/28/08 08:17 PM
Yes..Good Luck to you You have the look of joy all over you ...

Walter Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 246	Mon 01/28/08 08:18 PM
Thanks everyone! I do appreciate your advice and concern.