People, if you are going to IM me, then have something in your profile. If it is empty, I am sure not going to accept the IM.

What do you consider "empty"

I like it when you talk mean to me!!!

yeah,like no answer,no answer,no answer...

That means no data other than age and location. It means no info in the blurb, but also no info in the smokes, drinks, and other things. It means there is nothing in it but a name, an age, and a location.

AAhh gotcha

Dont you just love when they say they will write something later

That is irritating. If they took the time to write that, they could have at least listed a few things instead.

You should see the profiles in my Mutual Matches --

I even wrote this about them --



And the buttons say
Yes, No, Maybe

And I read the words
(That say almost nothing –
“No game players”
“I’m a laid back girl”
“Shy at first”
“If you want to know more,
You’ll have to ask me”)
Throw a dart
At a word
In a dictionary
And I’ve got a better chance
Of defining you

I know less about you
Than I know about the car
I saw in the parking lot
At the grocery store
Last Thursday night
With the dent in the door
And the hubcap missing
And the bumper sticker
With some guy’s name on it
I never even heard of
Running for City Council
Six years ago
Did he win?
Did he lose?
Yes, No, Maybe?

And I look at the picture
And it sometimes isn’t you
It’s a duck
Or a hat
Or a house on a hill
Or two people
Or three
(With no information
About which one is you –
If any –??)
Is it really you?
Yes, No, Maybe?

Profile says:
“I like to have fun”
How original (yawn)
How much time
Did you put into this?
Four seconds? Five?
Couldn’t be much more
Are you here for a reason?
To meet someone?
Or is it just a reflex,
A facade, an illusion,
“My friend told me about this site
So I set up a profile
And then I went away
And I’ll never look at it again”
Yes, No, Maybe?

Too shy to say
“I’m interested” – ?
Or not even there at all –
A ghost of a shadow
Of a non-existent profile
Of a dot-to-dot picture
Of a non-existent person
This is ectoplasmdating
Nothing mentioned
Nothing gained
Yes, No, Maybe?

Empty profiles and the dreaded "Blue Box". What a winning combo!

my profile has something on it but, my head is empty,lol. does that count?

Lex, that is great. It tells it like it is.

Goof, I so agree.

Maxx, you might want to read Lex's poem and then take another look at your profile. But it IS better than absolutely nothing.

max is just short and to the point with no fluff right?

Hmmm, he put down a lot of interests. That is good. But didn't really say anything about WHO he is and what he wants.

I know you feel. I get annoyed with thoes and people messaging me with stuf like "your hot want to date?" um... no. I dont know you, your probably alot older then you claim, and i dont care if your bill gates until you can prove your not crazy the answar will be no.

I completely agree with you

hehehe. Yep. There it is.