So don't let your aftershave come on too strong monsta. Everyone of those 5 minutes count. For example in the first minute she ridicules you terribly for coming up inappropriately and unwanted while her and her freinds are having a girls night out. In the second minute she weighs up how you act under pressure as her and her freinds pick and fire upon your character flaws and your looks and demeanor and downright laugh in your face pancaking your ego like stepping on a beercan. In the third minute the pack of animals surround you and size you up for the kill checking every litte nuance from your style and the way you carry yourself to your taste in dress making sure to look closely at your ass and package and thinking for one millionth of a millisecond about you and her in a compromising position. Quicker than a blink of an eye they make that yay or nay decision. The fourth minute is all you buddy. Its your chance to "shine or choke". That one minute to redeem yourself. Your one chance to defend your own honor. Your one chance to shine. Your one chance to choke on your pride and pimp what's left of your humbleness. You have to show your sincerity and your ability to roll with their punches and blows because yes by this time they have already made the decision if they would sleep with you or not and even if they did they wouldn't admit it to you or their freinds. But you can see their answers in their eyes. The last minute is the rebuttal and judgement call from the women. This is where you get judged hard and fast. From a "Go away litte boy" with a bunch of waving palms to a "Kick rocks a**hole" with a bunch of thumbs down and lots of booing. Kindof like how you're getting treated here. I'm assuming you have never been through a messy bitter divorce and lost everything you own due to it. For if you had questions like these never get asked. Good luck!