My problem is that i cant get this guy out of my head and i have no clue why. All through highschool this kid had a crush on me, seriously, he was like my shadow. but for whatever reason, because i was so shy, a lot younger then most of my peers, or just cuz i was a tomboy, i wasnt really into guys durning HS. not like gay not into boys... just wasnt c*ck crazy like everyone else lol. anyway... two years later i still think about him almost everyday. we never went out, and were never even really close, not to mention the fact that we havnt spoken for a year (cuz i wanted it that way... dont ask). and so now im going crazy, why do i think about him so much? i dont think im in love with him, but ive never been in love with anybody so i have nothing to go off of. is it just cuz i feel guilty? becuase ive been looking for somthing serious? or am i really in love with him and just too stubbern/ inexperienced/ b*tchy to realize it?

Find him. D8 him. And see what you have been missing girl!!

probably cause you are ready for a relationship and he was the last person you knew was really interested? Try going on a date with someone. If the date goes well and you still keep thinking of the other guy then you should look deeper into it.

Cuz yer crazy?

I agree with Becca...find him and date him if he isnt already attached...

Ive learned the hard way to always trust your "gut"...

Maybe he was "the one who got away"

Good luck!!

Find him....stalk him...make a set of "clackers" out of his nvts... Then you'll be in your "Happy Place"

Basically....I think you want some, and he comes to mind as a guy that you probably wanted but you somehow just made yourself block out the fact that you did. I mean....seriously...you are too cryptic with your post. You didn't talk to him for a year cause you wanted it that way? Ummmmmmm....can you say you like the dude, want to try him out, and see if it is possible you could feel alot more for him? Cause, I am thinking he did nothing wrong, cause if he did you would not think of him in the manner you are.

Basically, you are denying what you feel, which is that you want to go out with him and you want to see if it is...indeed...something to build upon. Why the damn games though? Oh. Right. You were not c*ck crazy then but now you are....and it seems you want his. Well, if so, then by all means, venture away and see what happens. Cause, I believe it is what you want.