It is very hard, esp when they are younger. My nephew was
25...heartbreaking!! I guess thats why we really never know what
tomorrow brings, so we have to live each day like its our last. Thats
why there isn't one day that goes by that I don't tell my family and esp
my boys how much I care about them. Never take for granted that you will
be here tomorrow to tell someone how you feel...because it just might
now happen. I have this really neat poem about that...I will have to
post it.

Heres that poem and I hope its not to long for anyone!
THE TIME IS NOW
If you're ever going to love me
Love me now, while I can know
The sweet and tender feelings
Which from true affections flow.
Love me now while I am living.
Do not wait until I am gone
And then have it chiseled in marble,
Sweet words on ice-cold stone.
If you have tender thoughts of me,
Please tell me now.
If you wait until I am sleeping,
Never to awaken,
There will be death between us
And I won't hear you then.
So if you love me, even a little bit,
Let me know it while I am living
So I can know and treasure it!

thats a really good

SO SCARY! i think everyone is afraid of death, but truth be told im more
afraid of losing my daughter or husband then i am myself dying. It
scares me shitless to think one day i couldnt be here to watch my baby
grow.