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Topic: girl already has a boyfriend
123454321 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 5	Sat 01/26/08 05:37 PM
I am 27 years old and recently met a 26 or 27 year-old girl. She seems cool, but there is one problem. She already has a boyfriend. I'll get to the real problem soon. Before doing so, I should mention that during one of our early conversations, she said 'by the way, I'm available'. That leads to me to believe she is available. Now to my main concern. Her boyfriend is an old man. Not 40, not 50, maybe not even 60. This guy is OLD. I would guess in his sixties or seventies. He looks like a typical old man too. I don't see why any woman would find him sexually attractive. The girl I met does not seem to be money driven and I do not suspect her of looking for a Sugar Daddy. She says she will only be involved with one man and that if her and I get together, her old man and her will only be friends. What should I think of this?

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sat 01/26/08 05:39 PM
I am 27 years old and recently met a 26 or 27 year-old girl. She seems cool, but there is one problem. She already has a boyfriend. I'll get to the real problem soon. Before doing so, I should mention that during one of our early conversations, she said 'by the way, I'm available'. That leads to me to believe she is available. Now to my main concern. Her boyfriend is an old man. Not 40, not 50, maybe not even 60. This guy is OLD. I would guess in his sixties or seventies. He looks like a typical old man too. I don't see why any woman would find him sexually attractive. The girl I met does not seem to be money driven and I do not suspect her of looking for a Sugar Daddy. She says she will only be involved with one man and that if her and I get together, her old man and her will only be friends. What should I think of this? First of all, have you guys even met face to face?

ybor363 Joined Mon 07/09/07 Posts: 53	Sat 01/26/08 05:39 PM
Maybe she doesn't SEEM money driven, because she already has money... but I don't know, how long have they been together? because if they've been together for a long time I could understand that. But if I was dating someone twice my age, I'd probably be looking for someone else too lol.

123454321 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 5	Sat 01/26/08 05:41 PM Edited by 123454321 on Sat 01/26/08 05:42 PM
We met face-to-face and have gone out face-to-face. The internet had no involvement whatsoever. Pretend for a moment it is still 1990. She has known him for several years.

NatalieHalla Joined Tue 11/14/06 Posts: 199	Sat 01/26/08 05:42 PM
LOL...thats old! eeww saggy balls...you deserve someone who will give you ALL there attention..and not LIE t you..one lie leads to another xo

jscottelwood Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 40	Sat 01/26/08 05:42 PM
RUN!!! DO NOT WALK!!!to the nearest "EXIT" If she will treat this guy like that...guess what...you're next. A tiger can't change it's stripes. If she isn't mature and decent enough to end it with him before looking elsewhere, then she isn't worth your time. (unless, of course, you are hideously ugly and will settle for anything with a crack)

9CORNERPOCKET Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2072	Sat 01/26/08 05:42 PM
NOT ALL WOMEN GO FOR A MAN THAT IS OR IS NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE..............LOTTA GOLD DIGGERS OUT HERE MAN, WATCH IT.............

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 01/26/08 05:43 PM
RUN!!! She has a sugar daddy weather she admits it or not....

Journey2008 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 598	Sat 01/26/08 05:43 PM
I would be very careful...something just doesn't sound right. Why would someone want to date a person old enough to be their grandparent, if they weren't looking for something?? Money, a place to live, something.

123454321 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 5	Sat 01/26/08 05:44 PM
Although she says she is available, I don't think she lied since they may not be 'boyfriend-girlfriend' by her definition, but they are in a relationship that allows them to kiss. I define that as boyfriend / girlfriend although she never used either term.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sat 01/26/08 05:45 PM
I am 27 years old and recently met a 26 or 27 year-old girl. She seems cool, but there is one problem. She already has a boyfriend. I'll get to the real problem soon. Before doing so, I should mention that during one of our early conversations, she said 'by the way, I'm available'. That leads to me to believe she is available. Now to my main concern. Her boyfriend is an old man. Not 40, not 50, maybe not even 60. This guy is OLD. I would guess in his sixties or seventies. He looks like a typical old man too. I don't see why any woman would find him sexually attractive. The girl I met does not seem to be money driven and I do not suspect her of looking for a Sugar Daddy. She says she will only be involved with one man and that if her and I get together, her old man and her will only be friends. What should I think of this? Could I just first say that your PROFILE reads like ,,,HEY IM FAKE but HELL, I DON'T CARE IF YOU KNOW IT OR NOT!!!lol,,,lol Im not going to waste MY TIME writing out anything!!! But GOOD LUCK on your question here... PERSONALLY, I think your just playing,,have fun..

jscottelwood Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 40	Sat 01/26/08 05:46 PM
PERHAPS>>>>>>>>>>>> He has a very large life insurance policy and she simply wishes to ask you a favor down the road.....HMMMM

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sat 01/26/08 05:47 PM
We met face-to-face and have gone out face-to-face. The internet had no involvement whatsoever. Pretend for a moment it is still 1990. She has known him for several years. Well knowing that you mention you guys have gone out and knowing it's not someone your talking to on here. It's a start. Just a suggestion though, take your time with this and see where she is going with it. For me I would be wondering all kind of things, but then again you said the man she is with now, maybe she has reached her limit with him. It's really hard to say what might become of this knowing there are so many things no one on here know about the situation.

123454321 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 5	Sat 01/26/08 05:49 PM
I am 27 years old and recently met a 26 or 27 year-old girl. She seems cool, but there is one problem. She already has a boyfriend. I'll get to the real problem soon. Before doing so, I should mention that during one of our early conversations, she said 'by the way, I'm available'. That leads to me to believe she is available. Now to my main concern. Her boyfriend is an old man. Not 40, not 50, maybe not even 60. This guy is OLD. I would guess in his sixties or seventies. He looks like a typical old man too. I don't see why any woman would find him sexually attractive. The girl I met does not seem to be money driven and I do not suspect her of looking for a Sugar Daddy. She says she will only be involved with one man and that if her and I get together, her old man and her will only be friends. What should I think of this? Could I just first say that your PROFILE reads like ,,,HEY IM FAKE but HELL, I DON'T CARE IF YOU KNOW IT OR NOT!!!lol,,,lol Im not going to waste MY TIME writing out anything!!! But GOOD LUCK on your question here... PERSONALLY, I think your just playing,,have fun.. Sat 01/26/08 05:49 PM I did not set up a profile because I have chosen not to look for relationships online. The only reason I created a profile was so that I could ask this question. Since I don't have many friends, I had to ask online. Nothing has been fabricated. I have no incentive to lie. I just want to know what I should think of this situation. It seems pretty bizzare to me.

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Sat 01/26/08 05:51 PM
I did not set up a profile because I have chosen not to look for relationships online. The only reason I created a profile was so that I could ask this question. Since I don't have many friends, I had to ask online. Nothing has been fabricated. I have no incentive to lie. I just want to know what I should think of this situation. It seems pretty bizzare to me. It is bizzare. Hell if anything, just have fun. I mean it's not like your not interested

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 01/26/08 05:51 PM
It is bizarre and if she treats the elderly man this way- she will treat u pretty much the same. Sorry. I feel bad for the older guy- hope he knows she is about to jump ship. There is something real fishy with this!

fortsmithman Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 2819	Sat 01/26/08 05:54 PM
Not all 60 yr olds look old For example Sylvester Stallone is in his 60's and I know quite few young ladies who would gladly do sly. Also Chuck Norris is nearly 70 and there are also younger ladies who would also do him. As for the older ladies Christie Brinkley is in her mid 50's and she is still hott. There are plenty of guys who would gladly do Christie. Maybe the lady is just playing you.

MarkDavis Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 1	Sat 01/26/08 05:57 PM
To me this sounds to be a very odd situation. I think before getting more attached or persuing this female further, perhaps an honest inquiry would be in order. You have nothing to lose, expressing your concern is in your best interest so that you are not taken advantage of or hurt if there is alternative motives. I always like to try the honest semi-blunt approach when situations arise, don't make it offensive but more concerned. The worst that can happen is you find out the truth, or you further feel deceived. Either way you can make a logical decision accordingly.

123454321 Joined Sat 01/26/08 Posts: 5	Sat 01/26/08 05:57 PM
Not all 60 yr olds look old For example Sylvester Stallone is in his 60's and I know quite few young ladies who would gladly do sly. Also Chuck Norris is nearly 70 and there are also younger ladies who would also do him. As for the older ladies Christie Brinkley is in her mid 50's and she is still hott. There are plenty of guys who would gladly do Christie. Maybe the lady is just playing you. I've seen them together. He looks very, very, very, old.

Bobby0414 Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 195	Sat 01/26/08 06:04 PM
Sleep with her and never speak to her again