I got a big problem... I'm in a realtionship with a guy that I love alot but the other day one of my ex-boyfriends came over and now I'm moving in up the street from him and I still have feelings for him but I love the man I'm with now I don't know what to do... HELP ME PLEASE!!!

u have feelings but you love him..but are you in love with him?

I am in love with the man I'm with now but I still have love for my ex

I would take some time for myself and not see either and i think with time you will be able to see who it is you really want.As long as you have both you will never be able to decide.And this will prevent anyone from being hurt.Good luck

Thank you Liquidcandy

well u dont have love you have feelings for him.. but are you in love with him there is a difference

Are all women like this, because this has happened to me a lot?

YOU ARE VERY WELCOME AND WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!

Follow your heart. Its always right. But DON'T deceive yourself, lie, play mental games, cheat, play, or attempt to defraud either of the torn between lovers bullsh!t men in question or you will find yourself alone! Did I make my point perfectly clear?

Liquidcandy's advice is helping but does anyone else have another view of what I should do???

Thanks longhairbiker that does help too

Liquid's advice is good, i would go with that, take some time and think about it before someone get's really hurt.

I suggest just letting things happen. There are certain things that you cannot change, (like the fact that you are moving in up the street from him). If you really love your boyfriend you'll stay that way, if not then you'll know.

Sweetie you're 18, your're not suppose to be stressing over things like this. Life should be about having fun right now. Enjoy it!!

Also, checked out your profile and I like the fact that you don't think you need to show skin to be cute and sexy!

Good Luck honey, I'm prayin' for ya.

Thanks baby not often i get a man to agree with me lol

Yes ....stay with the one you are with
There is a reason your Ex is your Ex
Don't have any contact with your Ex boyfriend.
Also does your current boyfriend know that your ex came over, and does he know that when you move your Ex will be just down the street?
And does he know that you still have feelings for your EX?
I bet if he knew all this, you wouldn't have to make up your mind.
He would help do it for you.

And if you find you don't feel your heart can decide please use common sense. Because if you think a little deeper many men on this site have had women cheat, lie, play games, act deceitful and lead them on and leave them for another man because they were thinking and feeling like you are right now. Touchy subject. A can opener to a BIG can of worms. Best of luck.

I dont believe that staying with the one you are with will solve anything if the thought is already there then i strongly believe you need to take some time alone and sort your feelings out.staying with your boyfriend now with mixed feelings i must say i see cheating on its way.

I'll give you the same advice I gave one of my friends...if you keep burning your candle at both ends, eventually it's going to reach the middle and your going to get burned. another words, either pick one and stay with that person or choose neither and go on your way..otherwise, if they find out about one another your going to be the one left hurt and alone.

you need to start remembering why he's your ex instead of why you still have feelings for him

I'm one of those men who got burned twice in this exact situation. And I'm extremely angry, disappointed, and bitter about it. But I learned from it. Don't be one of those women. You are stronger and wiser than that. You have to put some practicality into this. You can't have your cake and eat it too.