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Topic: EMBARASSED TA BE SEEN WITH ME
Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 01/25/08 12:17 PM
Time to move on

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Fri 01/25/08 12:18 PM
lame excuse sounds like a player hope ur protecting yourself alot of diseases out there

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Fri 01/25/08 12:45 PM
I do not mean to sound as though I'm attacking you here, but rather just pointing out something from a fellow female perspective. Your interests on your profile list "sex" three times. If you present yourself as primarily looking for sex, then how can you complain about a "booty call" relationship? In addition, I think your options here are pretty clear. If you'd like to actually date this man, why not change the way you two meet up? He could call and say he wants to see you, and you could respond with "sure, where would you like to go?"... or "I was planning on seeing a movie with my girlfriend, but I'd love to go with you instead". There are a variety of options there. His response to that would tell you all you need to know. As to the "sex" part of your profile, you might consider playing that down. I enjoy sex as much as everyone else, but I'd prefer to let people find that out as I become intimate with them rather than when they read my profile. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best, as you deserve.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Fri 01/25/08 01:33 PM
I think he is screwing you and the exes.Call Maury!!

Maizy Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 410	Fri 01/25/08 05:59 PM
People will treat you the way you let them! Demand respect and also I go along with lilith to the fact that you should change your profile. First things first though......I would dump him in a heartbeat!

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Fri 01/25/08 06:01 PM
Not good...Good luck

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 01/25/08 06:03 PM
If they don't take you out and let you shine Like a diamond in the light and bring that Beautiful smile to your face there is no Need for you to be in there life find That one who has pride in you all the time Run like the wind from him ! See .................... now THAT'S what I'M talkin' bout.... Men know the sh*t on men and women know the same on women. but we just can't see it with the opposite sex. I have a lot of guy friends for JUST that reason

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 01/25/08 06:04 PM
I do not mean to sound as though I'm attacking you here, but rather just pointing out something from a fellow female perspective. Your interests on your profile list "sex" three times. If you present yourself as primarily looking for sex, then how can you complain about a "booty call" relationship? In addition, I think your options here are pretty clear. If you'd like to actually date this man, why not change the way you two meet up? He could call and say he wants to see you, and you could respond with "sure, where would you like to go?"... or "I was planning on seeing a movie with my girlfriend, but I'd love to go with you instead". There are a variety of options there. His response to that would tell you all you need to know. As to the "sex" part of your profile, you might consider playing that down. I enjoy sex as much as everyone else, but I'd prefer to let people find that out as I become intimate with them rather than when they read my profile. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best, as you deserve. Nice Lilith!!

newg78 Joined Thu 03/01/07 Posts: 3672	Fri 01/25/08 06:15 PM
I do not mean to sound as though I'm attacking you here, but rather just pointing out something from a fellow female perspective. Your interests on your profile list "sex" three times. If you present yourself as primarily looking for sex, then how can you complain about a "booty call" relationship? In addition, I think your options here are pretty clear. If you'd like to actually date this man, why not change the way you two meet up? He could call and say he wants to see you, and you could respond with "sure, where would you like to go?"... or "I was planning on seeing a movie with my girlfriend, but I'd love to go with you instead". There are a variety of options there. His response to that would tell you all you need to know. As to the "sex" part of your profile, you might consider playing that down. I enjoy sex as much as everyone else, but I'd prefer to let people find that out as I become intimate with them rather than when they read my profile. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best, as you deserve. Well said Guys you meet on here would see you as how you describe yourself based on what you wrote. Their first impression on you would be somewhat really looking for "something else" instead of starting a nice conversation. Just my 2cents Goodluck anyways, good guys are just sneaking around, start hunting 'em!

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Sat 01/26/08 02:20 AM
Goodluck anyways, good guys are just sneaking around, start hunting 'em! Yup.. The good ones tend to be much less noticeable. They make less noise then the ones actively seeking the attention of everyone around them.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sat 01/26/08 03:15 AM
MY BOYFRIEND AND I DON'T DO ANYTHING TOGETHER.EITHER HE CUMS OVER TA MY HOUSE OR I GO OVER THERE,AND WE LAY UP WATCHING TV.I MEAN THAT'S NICE AND EVERYTHING BUT I DO THAT DURING THA WEEK.I ASKED HIM Y WE DONT GO OUT AND HE SAYS THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO BUMP INTO ONE OF HIS EXS AND THEY START TRYING TO START **** WIT ME.HONESTLY,IM THINKING ABOUT BREAKING IT OFF WITH HIM CUZ HE'S LETTIN THA PAST INTERRUPT AND DETERMINE OUR FUTURE. he's either cheating or he's one cheap SOB, either way drop the dead weight and look for someone who will treat you better.

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Sat 01/26/08 07:25 AM
MY BOYFRIEND AND I DON'T DO ANYTHING TOGETHER.EITHER HE CUMS OVER TA MY HOUSE OR I GO OVER THERE,AND WE LAY UP WATCHING TV.I MEAN THAT'S NICE AND EVERYTHING BUT I DO THAT DURING THA WEEK.I ASKED HIM Y WE DONT GO OUT AND HE SAYS THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO BUMP INTO ONE OF HIS EXS AND THEY START TRYING TO START **** WIT ME.HONESTLY,IM THINKING ABOUT BREAKING IT OFF WITH HIM CUZ HE'S LETTIN THA PAST INTERRUPT AND DETERMINE OUR FUTURE. the politically correct term is "booty call"

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 01/26/08 08:17 AM
Deffinately a player... Girl go out and get you a man- thet will take you out and have some fun!

BigCurt_31 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 899	Sat 01/26/08 08:58 AM
I would say give the dude an ultimatum to take you out to the clubs or else you are gone!

tinabelle Joined Tue 09/26/06 Posts: 1044	Sat 01/26/08 12:17 PM
I do not mean to sound as though I'm attacking you here, but rather just pointing out something from a fellow female perspective. Your interests on your profile list "sex" three times. If you present yourself as primarily looking for sex, then how can you complain about a "booty call" relationship? In addition, I think your options here are pretty clear. If you'd like to actually date this man, why not change the way you two meet up? He could call and say he wants to see you, and you could respond with "sure, where would you like to go?"... or "I was planning on seeing a movie with my girlfriend, but I'd love to go with you instead". There are a variety of options there. His response to that would tell you all you need to know. As to the "sex" part of your profile, you might consider playing that down. I enjoy sex as much as everyone else, but I'd prefer to let people find that out as I become intimate with them rather than when they read my profile. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best, as you deserve. yes ma'am, i agree.