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it's beeen said, you can fall in love with the idea of falling in love. people say they can fall in love on first meet but more then half of you don't even know what love is, so how can you fall in love? Maybe in the Real World?..Doesn't pertain to Everyone..maybe not even Most people... 
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone? yes... stalkers fall in love that way all the time |
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I can fall in love with someone just with conversation. The mind is a beautiful thing
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I can fall in love with someone just with conversation. The mind is a beautiful thing
^ as someone mention, when your out in the real world, it's a whole new thing. reallity setsd in is where the truth comes out and whats really going on. Thuis is the internet so you have no idea who you are really talking to. So in all this. I couldn't even see myself falling in love on fist meet. id be lying to myself. being honest with ones self is where all this starts
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I can fall in love with someone just with conversation. The mind is a beautiful thing
^ as someone mention, when your out in the real world, it's a whole new thing. reallity setsd in is where the truth comes out and whats really going on. Thuis is the internet so you have no idea who you are really talking to. So in all this. I couldn't even see myself falling in love on fist meet. id be lying to myself. being honest with ones self is where all this starts
I agree with not falling in love when u first meet someone. I just believe that....... awwwwwwww......... screw it!!!!! who needs love when youve got lust 
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Here is my main gripe with "love" and how people use the word. See, I remember back in high school how, as teenagers, you would date someone and you would write on your book cover, or your folders, how "I love this person". Yeah, it is innocent, but I can also remember there were some kids back then who firmly believed they were in love. Then, two weeks later, you break up cause you love some other person? Yeah...that sure as heck was love. This just shows how we take "love" for granted. We feel something for someone in that moment we like them, and assume we are in love with them. Hell, you see it on TV all the damn time. Look at Soap Operas. How many times has a chic on one of those shows been in love and married? Maybe 10 times? And celebrities. We say they don't influence us, but look at how marriage is viewed in Hollywood. It means squat to actually believe in love out there. Another problem is that some feel that having great sex with someone means that they are falling in love with them. They base a relationship on sex....the physical. Not any actual feelings they have, except for the feeling of being sexually satisfied (Nothing wrong with this, but a relationship cannot be solely based around this.). Sex with someone you care for and love is an added benefit. I can honestly remember a time when love meant something. Thing is, we don't talk the way we used to. We don't mean things the way we used to. We don't stand by what we say, cause in today's world, it is all about "Me" and the whole instant gratification thing. Until we start to give a damn about what we say, meaning it, and knowing it to be what we want, and not only caring about our own personal feelings....I just don't see things changing. Amen to this! (I think I was guilty of this before  )
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Here is my main gripe with "love" and how people use the word. See, I remember back in high school how, as teenagers, you would date someone and you would write on your book cover, or your folders, how "I love this person". Yeah, it is innocent, but I can also remember there were some kids back then who firmly believed they were in love. Then, two weeks later, you break up cause you love some other person? Yeah...that sure as heck was love. This just shows how we take "love" for granted. We feel something for someone in that moment we like them, and assume we are in love with them. Hell, you see it on TV all the damn time. Look at Soap Operas. How many times has a chic on one of those shows been in love and married? Maybe 10 times? And celebrities. We say they don't influence us, but look at how marriage is viewed in Hollywood. It means squat to actually believe in love out there. Another problem is that some feel that having great sex with someone means that they are falling in love with them. They base a relationship on sex....the physical. Not any actual feelings they have, except for the feeling of being sexually satisfied (Nothing wrong with this, but a relationship cannot be solely based around this.). Sex with someone you care for and love is an added benefit. I can honestly remember a time when love meant something. Thing is, we don't talk the way we used to. We don't mean things the way we used to. We don't stand by what we say, cause in today's world, it is all about "Me" and the whole instant gratification thing. Until we start to give a damn about what we say, meaning it, and knowing it to be what we want, and not only caring about our own personal feelings....I just don't see things changing. Amen to this! (I think I was guilty of this before )
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone? That usually is the general idea, isn't it |
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone? That usually is the general idea, isn't it |
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Here is my main gripe with "love" and how people use the word. See, I remember back in high school how, as teenagers, you would date someone and you would write on your book cover, or your folders, how "I love this person". Yeah, it is innocent, but I can also remember there were some kids back then who firmly believed they were in love. Then, two weeks later, you break up cause you love some other person? Yeah...that sure as heck was love. This just shows how we take "love" for granted. We feel something for someone in that moment we like them, and assume we are in love with them. Hell, you see it on TV all the damn time. Look at Soap Operas. How many times has a chic on one of those shows been in love and married? Maybe 10 times? And celebrities. We say they don't influence us, but look at how marriage is viewed in Hollywood. It means squat to actually believe in love out there. Another problem is that some feel that having great sex with someone means that they are falling in love with them. They base a relationship on sex....the physical. Not any actual feelings they have, except for the feeling of being sexually satisfied (Nothing wrong with this, but a relationship cannot be solely based around this.). Sex with someone you care for and love is an added benefit. I can honestly remember a time when love meant something. Thing is, we don't talk the way we used to. We don't mean things the way we used to. We don't stand by what we say, cause in today's world, it is all about "Me" and the whole instant gratification thing. Until we start to give a damn about what we say, meaning it, and knowing it to be what we want, and not only caring about our own personal feelings....I just don't see things changing. Amen to this! (I think I was guilty of this before )
Most people are. Truth is, English (and many other languages) is designed around the idea of words having subjective meanings. Love is at once the most overused and the most underused term in our language. In some languages, Love only means "Romantic Love between two partners". In English, it can mean that, or love of family. Or strength of friendship. We use the romantic definition too much, and often don't express love for those things we cherish anywhere near enough. Our own views of love will change, because our view of the word is subjective. I think once, long ago, I could have loved at first sight. These days, I'm just not trusting enough to believe what I see at first glance is real. |
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I can fall in love with someone just with conversation. The mind is a beautiful thing
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Ok, that I can agree with. But then, I love to talk. Does it show?
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yeah but i try not too
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Nope and I said it couple times before. Can't fall in love with someone you don't know....
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I can fall in love with someone just with conversation. The mind is a beautiful thing
On the net???? 
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone?  what do u mean? After talking with them online, then meeting them?
IMO, online and real life are two different things. Online someone could be totally different than in real life. |
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone? I usually insist on falling in love without meeting them.
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do u believe u can fall in love once u meet someone? what do u mean? After talking with them online, then meeting them?
IMO, online and real life are two different things. Online someone could be totally different than in real life.  most of the time they are. Some people act one why on the net and off the net it's like
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Fri 03/07/08 07:35 PM
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make love? yes. Fall in love? no...here's the reasons.
Love is about acceptance, compromise, work, forgiveness, patience and so many other things. One a first meet...you don't know if you can truly compromise because you haven't had the oppurtunity. You don't know if you can truly forgive because you haven't had the opportunity. You don't know if you can be truly patient because you haven't had the opportunity, You don't know if you can truly accept flaws because you haven't seen any yet.... And you don't know if you can truly work things out when something goes wrong because you haven't had the opportunity. Love is SO MUCH more than just a feeling....it is an action as well. How do you know if you can LOVE someone if you haven't had the opportunity? JMHO |
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make love? yes. Fall in love? no...here's the reasons. Love is about acceptance, compromise, work, forgiveness, patience and so many other things. One a first meet...you don't know if you can truly compromise because you haven't had the oppurtunity. You don't know if you can truly forgive because you haven't had the opportunity. You don't know if you can be truly patient because you haven't had the opportunity, You don't know if you can truly accept flaws because you haven't seen any yet.... And you don't know if you can truly work things out when something goes wrong because you haven't had the opportunity. Love is SO MUCH more than just a feeling....it is an action as well. How do you know if you can LOVE someone if you haven't had the opportunity? JMHO very well said, i agree. |
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