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Topic: What to do??
repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/21/08 09:53 PM
Ok, so I met this guy a few weeks ago and things seemed really good. We have a lot in common and are compatable in a lot of areas. There are some things we dont see eye to eye on but I think that could be worked out. So here's the problem. I find myself, when in his company, just wanting to bet the crap out of him. Not literally but he finds these ways to get under my skin and irritate and annoy me to the point I just want to start beating him or something...So my thought is do I try to stay and make it work or do I walk away before the emotions get involved?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Mon 01/21/08 09:55 PM
um if things r not good now and u dont feel connected get out

SightSeer Joined Tue 10/30/07 Posts: 553	Mon 01/21/08 09:55 PM
Beat the crap out of him one time, just to see.

MN21 Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 61	Mon 01/21/08 09:55 PM
I just vote beat him up

FaithfulOne78 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 15313	Mon 01/21/08 09:56 PM
my best answer would be...if you can't control the feeling of wanting to beat the crap outta him...because of things he does..it might be time to say " it's been fun..but it's not working" and hit the road before emotions get to involved.

justkev08 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1897	Mon 01/21/08 09:56 PM
Second that I just vote beat him up

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 01/21/08 09:56 PM
Um any time I want to beat the crap out of someone I'm dating I figure it's time to go.. I don't think that can be worked out... JMHO.. Good luck!

nuenjins Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 1046	Mon 01/21/08 09:56 PM
Beat him. BEAT HIM DOWN!!!!

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 01/21/08 09:57 PM
Beat the crap out of him one time, just to see. lmfao amen

SightSeer Joined Tue 10/30/07 Posts: 553	Mon 01/21/08 09:57 PM
KICK HIS ASS SEA BASS!

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:57 PM
Run, dont walk, away! He really doenst sound like he brings out the best in you

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/21/08 09:58 PM
Thats kinda what I have been thinking. I like the guy and he is great in small doses but after spending all weekend around him I was sooo glad to have to go to work today. Pretty sad. I also spent the half hour drive home praying his truck would not be in my drive when I got home from work.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 01/21/08 09:58 PM
Run, dont walk, away! He really doenst sound like he brings out the best in you he seems to bring out the BEAST in you tho... hmm...maybe he likes rough sex? lmfao

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Mon 01/21/08 10:00 PM
If you feel this way this early in the relationship what do you think you will feel like later in the relationship? will you feel like doing more than just beating the crap out of him?

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/21/08 10:00 PM
Too bad we havent even had sex. He thinks thats part of my problem. That I am too uptight and just need to get laid. I just dont think that is going to solve the problem....

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/21/08 10:02 PM
If you feel this way this early in the relationship what do you think you will feel like later in the relationship? will you feel like doing more than just beating the crap out of him? I'm not a violent person and I dont have too many violent tendencies so I dont worry about something happening later on down the road, in that respect. Maybe its just too much time spent together, too. Who knows!

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Mon 01/21/08 10:02 PM
Beat the crap out of him one time, just to see. yes i 3rd and 4th this

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 10:03 PM
Too bad we havent even had sex. He thinks thats part of my problem. That I am too uptight and just need to get laid. I just dont think that is going to solve the problem.... Maybe the beast in you that he brings out is really your gut telling you hes not a good one for you. Dont fall for this bs he's giving you about needing to get laid...geez

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Mon 01/21/08 10:04 PM
Too bad we havent even had sex. He thinks thats part of my problem. That I am too uptight and just need to get laid. I just dont think that is going to solve the problem.... Maybe the beast in you that he brings out is really your gut telling you hes not a good one for you. Dont fall for this bs he's giving you about needing to get laid...geez I'm not young and niave. I'm not falling for that one. Its my choice that we are not having sex.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Mon 01/21/08 10:05 PM Edited by ellgee1976 on Mon 01/21/08 10:05 PM
If you feel this way this early in the relationship what do you think you will feel like later in the relationship? will you feel like doing more than just beating the crap out of him? ok...can ya picture you with this guy 10 yrs from now? ya think he'd be a good role model? say...for kids? c'mon, you know the answer to this already, if ya wanna beat the hell outta him now, you'll wanna beat the hell outta him then too.. and you'll never be able to beat someone to the stage of "hell-free"