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carebear2344 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 60	Mon 01/21/08 08:08 AM
Ever dated a con artist? How would you know if he was trying to cvon you or not or should I even worry bout it?

SquizTheClown Joined Fri 01/04/08 Posts: 327	Mon 01/21/08 08:09 AM
Spend plenty of time getting to know him, and follow your gut instinct. Good luck

eskimo_nell Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 3035	Mon 01/21/08 08:09 AM
never dated one don't think i could

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 01/21/08 08:11 AM
Well if it's money that you're worried about, just be sure that you keep both your cash and bank info secure and out of his access. If it's emotions you're worried about...well in that case, 90% of men are con artists in that department, so just follow the standard cautionary procedures, haha. Most importantly, follow your instincts like Squiz said.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Mon 01/21/08 08:11 AM
Dont think it would be the BEST of ideas!!!

9CORNERPOCKET Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 2072	Mon 01/21/08 08:11 AM
pay close attentions to his questions..........

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Mon 01/21/08 08:12 AM
Ever dated a con artist? How would you know if he was trying to cvon you or not or should I even worry bout it? follow your heart

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Mon 01/21/08 08:12 AM
Ever dated a con artist? How would you know if he was trying to cvon you or not or should I even worry bout it? Yea, I married one

carebear2344 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 60	Mon 01/21/08 08:13 AM
Its not the money I'm worried about..It's more like my emotions That would be at risk..Yet I dont wanna dout it..Just moreless Courious..

e69 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 467	Mon 01/21/08 08:16 AM
Expect the worst so when it happens you will be ready for it. Or be smart and don't bother at all.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Mon 01/21/08 08:17 AM
Yep, while dating me she was dating a retired Black Ops and was married to the son of a trusted advisor of Castro. Probably more than that. I didn't even have a clue.

soxfan94 Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 3384	Mon 01/21/08 08:19 AM
Trust me, it doesn't take a con artist to mess with your emotions...there are plenty of people who aren't con artists who will do that, and probably some con artists who won't do that (maybe?). My point being, if it's your emotions that you're worried about, I don't see the situation being much different than if you were dating an average person, because your emotions would still be at risk then, too. We're all emotional con artists to some degree.

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Mon 01/21/08 08:19 AM
you can tell a tree by it's fruit

zhiba Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 759	Mon 01/21/08 08:28 AM
If there is any indication, that the guy you are dating is a con-artist, quickly get out. They usually always get what they are out for, they have practice. Keep your stuff yours. Do not share any vital information. Don't give them any money. Nobody should ask anybody for money that they just met. Just be careful and trust your instincts. If he looks too good to be true, he probably is. Good luck!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 01/21/08 10:40 AM
Yes........when I was young and stupid and believed every bs line in the book.......but Ive become wiser and can spot bs a mile away.....but hey I'll play along......playing playas is good clean fun!!

France1961 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 140	Mon 01/21/08 12:07 PM
Yes........when I was young and stupid and believed every bs line in the book.......but Ive become wiser and can spot bs a mile away.....but hey I'll play along......playing playas is good clean fun!! Exactly, I just gave one a taste of his own medecine...He didn't like it too much...That was the fun there....

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 01/21/08 12:11 PM
My motto is "give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves" I sit back and watch with getting emotions involved.. Almost all people show their true colors at some point with something you just have to be aware... Ok and yes, I've shot first and asked questions later.. That's not always good either..