Well it's either 100% both ways or forget it. Why should one be willing
to give it all and the other only is willing to give 75% it does not
work that way at all. Like I said now both my kids have graduated one is
still in college but both are living on there own so now I'm more
willing to go the length 100% on moving and all but will not sale my
house for that I would keep as I see it my kids which ever wanted to
could live there and keep things up I have a 12 x 24 storage shed in the
back that I could put what ever I needed to till I was ready to get
them lol But that is something that would have to be weighed if that
happen to arise until then well just have to wait and see waht the
future holds lol

Herewego It's only 4 more y's LOL JK you'll know whennthe time comes
and I'm sure I will to :)

OH! Hi iam LOL

I still have 2 great women I can call friends. I was with one for 6 mos
and the other almost a year. We found things after being together that
just were not quite right. Then we parted ways. I am just getting my
feet back on the ground from the last relationship(financially) and god
willing in a few mos I will be able to start the whole long distance
dating again. Till then I will be pretty much by myself and more than
1000+ miles from any of my friends or family.

Well time to shower for dinner going to a church dinner. CYA

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Have a good day gryphyn

shadow that is true.. hopefully time will tell.. :)

gryphon i understand what you mean.. been there done that. have a good
nite.

I recently broke off a 5 year relationship. It never is easy, but I
knew it was the right thing to do. It just wasn't right and not fair to
either of us to continue along that line

onalark, i did that last year. best thing i did.

as long as she is beautiful inside i would go to any lenghth its said
that home is where the heart is...my x wife was absolutley gorgeous but
rotten on the inside.

Someone being smart and keeping thier house is just that, being smart
only one being knows if things will work out right. Unfortunately we
never know what he is thinking all the time. Me I lost my house in the
divorce along with just about everything else.I am not looking for
someone to GIVE up everything to be with me, only be willing to do so.
That is showing me they are willing to go to any length to HAVE what we
all desire.

I have come to realize the same thing - I absolutely could not remain in
that relationship. I'm happier since I separated from my husband and
even happier since i broke that relationship

But, now having panic attacks

Onalark It's a ggod thing when people can see things ahead of time
because most people don;t and the end up regretting what had happened in
there relationship and stay in it for far to long.

I have to say that I would move. I met a man on the internet, we talked
daily from the time he got home from work til the time he went to bed.
We met, dated, all the normal stuff. We decided to get married and live
apart til my son graduated high school, he was about 2 months two away
from it. And I'd only get to see my new hubby every other weekend, it
was the only time he had off. Everything was fine til my son was only
about 2 weeks away from graduating. My husband decided to announce
online that he didn't want to be married anymore, didn't really give a
definate answer as to why. I'm now waiting for the divorce to be final,
and it will be soon.
I know I'll find someone eventually, it's just the waiting. I'm almost
to the point of giving up. Every time I think I pretty much have all
that I want, it seems to dissappear for whatever reason, sometimes no
reason at all.
To all who are looking, I say Good Luck. And I hope you find whatever it
is that your looking for.
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Humm well in the time I have been divorced I had one relantionship that
lasted 12 years we split was not pleasant at first but now we are good
friends and I know if I ever needed anything I could call him we have
went our seprate ways as for relantionships but he would still be there
if I needed him lol when my truck broke down on the way to work 8 months
ago he was the first one on the scene to help me out we still laugh and
talk but as friends only we had grown apart and was time for our
relantionship to go there own ways.

PMS sorry to hear that and I hope you find what you are looking for too.
But one thing I can't stand is when I hear how much of a checken someone
is to end it on the internet. If your going to do it step up to the
plate

Txs I like hearing when people can still be friends it shows where the
heart is. :)

Well I did not gain my house in the divorce we sold the one we had and
split the money but had to rent for a year before I bought the one I
have now it's nothing fancy it's an older home but it's mine there is
not a worse feeling than not having a home you can call your own with
two small kids then they were 7 & 9 now they are 22 & 24 and I would do
what ever I did for them all over again. I was not willing to even marry
while my kids was growing up my choice and maybe a bad one but... would
do it again for they both are fine adults and I have been rewarded sooo
much from them both so what ever I gave up in the past was worth it lol
Hell now I'm ready to fly the coop lol

I have two ex-wives and both I would trust to talk to a third
one that I would fine, not to many guys could or would say that...
And hello shadow,lol....

And that still must be really bad to recall pms, im sorry to.

I've stayed close to my ex's because of our kids, and because we
were the ones that made our decisions and still have respect enough for
each others thoughts and rights>>>

Funny cause Shadow the only one that I do not talk to is the one that
moved here and left even the last guy I dated was a truck driver and we
still keep in touch we only dated about 3 months but we it just was not
there and we both agreed no since in staying if the chemistry is just
not there hell last time he came through town I went and picked him up
were he had his truck parked we went out to eat went back to his truck
he burned me off about 300 songs alot of the classic rock that I wanted
we sit talked and laughed till almost 2am I left nothing happen called
him the next morning for he was not leaving till 1pm took him lunch and
paid for it went to walmart and picked up some stuff he needed we sat
talked some more gave him a hug and wished him well and off he went
there was nothing sexual not that he did not try lmao but ohhh well we
both just laughed about it and he left I talk to him on the IM or phone
once in a while to see how life is treating him. What really surprised
me is he said that I was the first woman that had never used him and he
respected that very much and wants to remain friends which is fine with
me. I do wish him the very best for he is a very sweet man. Just has
been taken for everything too many times sad that people treat others
that way.

Thank You Shadow. The bad part to all of it is the fact that I was going
to be the one moving. I was going to leave what little family behind
that I do have here. I don't own my home, so that was never a problem.
Ending a relationship online is bad enough, but to end a marriage online
is just the most cowardly thing ever. Or I think so anyway. But I am at
least happy that he said he wanted out before I moved, and didn't wait
til I was stuck in a town where I was single didn't know anyone but him.
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Thank You iam4u. Yes, it is. Especially since the last time I saw him
was on Easter Sunday. That will always be a bad day for me now. Just
something new to spoil a holiday. But I look at it like this. I am a big
girl and I can take it. He is my past and now I have to find my future.
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