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Topic: second date
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Sun 01/20/08 10:09 AM
I have been on couple dates with men and I thought they went well but they never call back. Should I call back or are they telling me the date didn't goes as well as I thought.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:10 AM
never call a guy back!

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Sun 01/20/08 10:11 AM
If you've already called them once, and they didn't call back, then let them go and keep looking. If there's been no attempt at contact, I think it's probably okay for you to try calling them. But just once, and if they don't answer, or don't call you back, then forget them -- they must not have appreciated you!

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Sun 01/20/08 10:11 AM
Wait for them to call, if they don't, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:11 AM
Why shouldn't you call a guy back?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/20/08 10:11 AM

I have been on couple dates with men and I thought they went well but they never call back. Should I call back or are they telling me the date didn't goes as well as I thought.


I wouldn't call, if they don't call to me it would be a sign that they're not interested depending on how many days it's been... Some guys have that 3 day rule from what I've seen posted on here...

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Sun 01/20/08 10:11 AM
put your head on please!, if he liked you he would call back.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:14 AM
dam a lil harsh huh ........

there is a better way of giving advice

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Sun 01/20/08 10:15 AM
i am not trying to be harsh, sorry that is the way i am, and i am telling the truth, but you don't have take my advice!

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Sun 01/20/08 10:16 AM
it ok to call once ,but say no more then hi ,whats up and if he does not return the calls hes more likely gone bye bye ohwell

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Sun 01/20/08 10:19 AM
id give it a day or 2 just to call and say hey but if he doesnt return the call soon after,then move on and find somebody else who is excited to call you back.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:19 AM

Why shouldn't you call a guy back?

I agree with you and like your responces. If you like someone then it don't hurt to call them back. Who knows whats going on in their mind. May be they are thinking same thing. Life is risk take it, what worse can happen they will not talk to you or not call back and then you will know for sure whats going on instead of waiting in dark.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:19 AM
Nah,noway forget him...oh wait, maybe he's in the hospital or something!

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Sun 01/20/08 10:22 AM
this is the deal, he doesn't call so he can keep you around just in case or he is not interested in you.

A guy knows this and as a guy they should also know that guys call back if they like the girl, period, wouldn't let her go that fast!

And if a guy likes you and you know it (cause he called) it makes things a lot easier in a relationship and your not left wasting your energy.

When a girl calls, he calls the shots, when a guy calls, she does.

That's it.

If I am too harsh that is because I think she should realize sooner than later that he is a goof, and I don't believe in letting people suffer over NOTHING

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Sun 01/20/08 10:23 AM
I wouldn't call him. I would text him telling him you had a good time, if he never replies then move on.flowerforyou

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Sun 01/20/08 10:23 AM
Humm ya know the women say don't call him let him call you but what if he is thinking the same thing is it not better to at least try. Shshshshh if it was me and he did not call I would give them at least the chance give him a call. If he don't answer leave a voice mail and then if he don't call back move on.

There are actually guys that think the same thing and think the women should put more time into the beiginning too some are actually shy or think maybe you don't want to see them. Never hurts to try at least.

I have seen cases were this happen and there was something wrong or the guy got cold feet or hurt. Sssssssssshhh this is the year 2000 if you at least try you know you did what you could and its time to move on.bigsmile

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Sun 01/20/08 10:24 AM

never call a guy back!



agreed

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Sun 01/20/08 10:24 AM

this is the deal, he doesn't call so he can keep you around just in case or he is not interested in you.

A guy knows this and as a guy they should also know that guys call back if they like the girl, period, wouldn't let her go that fast!

And if a guy likes you and you know it (cause he called) it makes things a lot easier in a relationship and your not left wasting your energy.

When a girl calls, he calls the shots, when a guy calls, she does.

That's it.

If I am too harsh that is because I think she should realize sooner than later that he is a goof, and I don't believe in letting people suffer over NOTHING


Oh Baby! Call me.

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Sun 01/20/08 10:24 AM

I wouldn't call him. I would text him telling him you had a good time, if he never replies then move on.flowerforyou


I totally agree!

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Sun 01/20/08 10:25 AM
it 2000 but things haven't changed that much, trust me on this one, lol.

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