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Topic: How can you tell....
bst_jewel's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:06 PM


I'm a scorpio, I always want sex


lol, so i've heard :P Damn Leos... so aggressive :P


lol and damn cancer's for being sexy...lol
hey when this turn Zodiac/horoscopes lol?laugh

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:06 PM
Here is what I think. If you let me I am goign to talk about sex. It really doesnt mean anything more than that. It doesnt mean that I am a good guy or that I am a bad guy. It just means that I am a guy. Just becasue I might make a off color comment doesnt mean that Im only interested in sex and nothing more with you. For the most part nobody on here lives around me. If Im just lookign for sex I dont hav to drive 200 miles to get it. If I meet you its becasue I want to meet you, regardless of any previous conversation or inuendos.

bst_jewel's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:08 PM

I would not want to just TELL you to do that, it is always your decision. However, it usually is best to wait a few weeks just to worm out someone who JUST wants sex with you. Of course some guys will hold out that long even if that is all they want, BUT watch the guys behavior during those weeks. If he calls you (not you calling him) etc. and genuinely seems to like you for YOU, he probably is interested in more than sex. LOL, more on my story (after my ex and I had sex, she was like "NOW, You are'nt just gonna use me as some booty call?! and me being the sarcastic comedian i am said, "Should'nt you have asked me that before we had sex?" LOL, it was funy at the moment.

lmao it still is!!laugh laugh

bst_jewel's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:09 PM

OMG!! An attractive Marylander on this site!?..Welcome!

thanks!:smile:

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:12 PM


OMG!! An attractive Marylander on this site!?..Welcome!

thanks!:smile:


yeppers

bst_jewel's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:14 PM

Here is what I think. If you let me I am goign to talk about sex. It really doesnt mean anything more than that. It doesnt mean that I am a good guy or that I am a bad guy. It just means that I am a guy. Just becasue I might make a off color comment doesnt mean that Im only interested in sex and nothing more with you. For the most part nobody on here lives around me. If Im just lookign for sex I dont hav to drive 200 miles to get it. If I meet you its becasue I want to meet you, regardless of any previous conversation or inuendos.


well yea i agree with you to a point...i don't have to drive the distance either..im more speaking for the guys that i know i'll could possibly date or that i have dated through here locally...Yea I do believe that there are people really trying to meet someone but that's not the case for everybody. They talk serious but end up being a fake with other inuendos.

TheShadow's photo
Thu 01/17/08 06:37 PM

if a guy you go out on a few dates with is taking you serious or just trying to get you into bed?...i notice a lot of guys in here that do the serious talk about what they want but end up talking about they're more intrested in messing around lol i find that funny and at the same time annoying for spending time in trying to get to know the person to end up with not really looking for nothing serious....would luv to hear from guys especially..:smile: ladies your still more than welcome to give me some advise hereflowerforyou
yeah your right, being on the net it is easy to talk all kinds. but one thing I live by, is action speaks louder then words. Anyone that really wants to get to know you will take there time and actually show you. You know at this point it don't take that much time for some guys just to come out and you to see how they really are. It's all in time and time will tell.

Troublemaker7's photo
Thu 01/17/08 07:49 PM

You never know. Funny story (ill make it brief) my-ex was just some girl I was trying to fool around with, we had sex within 3 days of meeting eachother, I ended up in a wonderful relationship with her for 18 months and we had a very mutual and simple break up, we still are best friends (not with benefits you sicko) lol, It is difficult to tell I say....


I actually had a very similar experience. When I met my current boyriend, I was really just looking for someone to have fun and let loose with. We slept together after our 2nd "date", just over a week after we met. As a woman who really enjoys sex and was recently out of a very long term relationship (7 years), I honestly never expected it to get very serious.

He really took my breath away, though... and he still is. Not just in bed (although that is fantastic), but in totally surprising ways. He is very intelligent, funny, sarcastic, we can play together or be serious together. Some weekends we sit on the couch all day in our pajamas watching football (with several clothing-free breaks), and other weekends we will get all dressed up and he will take me to the nicest restaurant in town.

Obviously, I think my situation is unique, but I guess the moral of the story is that a love for sex does not always mean a lack of respect or potential for a real relationship.

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