Topic: Controlling Ex wives
Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:35 PM
I am divorced of 5 years. Have a wonderful daughter 7 y/o. She is my complete inspiration daily. The ex wife want's more child support. (She just bought a house, hmmm...imagine that) and now is trying to manipulate my schedule to reduce the overnight stays to get more money now. HOW DARE ANY WOMAN OR MOTHER SAY THAT THE FATHER CANT SEE HIS OWN CHILD AS MUCH AS HE WANTS TO!

Why does everyone think it's normal to try and schedule or control such things?

098's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:38 PM
Feel for u bro.

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:38 PM
Yikes!! I wish you the best bro.

trueokie2's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:39 PM
I have never ever tried to keep MY CHILDRENS FATHER from SEEING his CHILDREN. HE just CHOOSES not to SEE them. grumble

toastedoranges's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:39 PM
you've been to court about your rights, correct?

good luck to you, i'm too ignorant to say much. wish ya well. a father has just as much right as the mother, good thing courts are recognizing that more

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:40 PM

I have never ever tried to keep MY CHILDRENS FATHER from SEEING his CHILDREN. HE just CHOOSES not to SEE them. grumble


Thats totally different, I am very involved in my daughters life, because I want to be! I am part of the PTA, go to all the school events, volunteer at the school, so on....I refuse to be one of those father's, Those type deserve it, I DONT!

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:40 PM

Yikes!! I wish you the best bro.


Thanks bro! Pray for me, I need it

adrianjo1's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:40 PM
It is not right.The child suffers not the adults.

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:41 PM

Feel for u bro.


Thanks man, I am crossing my fingers

gregory583's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:41 PM
HATE TO SAY IT BUT THATS A REASON GUYS ARE AFRIAD OF MARRIAGE AGAIN GET BURNED ONCE WHY CHANCE IT AGAIN? WOM HAS TO BE TOTALLY DIFFERANT THEN 1ST CHOICE.grumble grumble :smile:

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:42 PM

you've been to court about your rights, correct?

good luck to you, i'm too ignorant to say much. wish ya well. a father has just as much right as the mother, good thing courts are recognizing that more


I hope so, I have all the qaulifiers needed, I make more, work closer, live closer, everything is a better portrait for me...Just hope the courts see it also, where I live? The courts dont go by law, they go by the mood they woke up in

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:43 PM

HATE TO SAY IT BUT THATS A REASON GUYS ARE AFRIAD OF MARRIAGE AGAIN GET BURNED ONCE WHY CHANCE IT AGAIN? WOM HAS TO BE TOTALLY DIFFERANT THEN 1ST CHOICE.grumble grumble :smile:


I agree, that is why I am still single, by choice...I am totally afraid of marriage again and doubt I will ever do it again

trueokie2's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:45 PM
I understand you are upset I was just telling you my story. Just trying to share my feelings for you. I understand what your saying and I am sorry you are going through this. I just wish my ex could be more like you is all. I didn't mean anything by that statement and I'm sorry you took it that way.

flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:46 PM

I understand you are upset I was just telling you my story. Just trying to share my feelings for you. I understand what your saying and I am sorry you are going through this. I just wish my ex could be more like you is all. I didn't mean anything by that statement and I'm sorry you took it that way.

flowerforyou


I was attacking you and I am so sorry if it came across that way! I cant stand fathers that are like that! Stand up and take care of your child, they need you....I am just a little fustrated right now if you cant tell flowerforyou

Jim519's photo
Thu 01/17/08 04:47 PM


I understand you are upset I was just telling you my story. Just trying to share my feelings for you. I understand what your saying and I am sorry you are going through this. I just wish my ex could be more like you is all. I didn't mean anything by that statement and I'm sorry you took it that way.

flowerforyou


I was attacking you and I am so sorry if it came across that way! I cant stand fathers that are like that! Stand up and take care of your child, they need you....I am just a little fustrated right now if you cant tell flowerforyou


WASNT! Wow, my typing is bad tonite