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why does everyone think its strange for a 24 year old not to want kids?
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 I dont find it strange. I understand completely. I'm 30yrs old,never had any kids and I have always wondered why so many people have kids.
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well....I never wanted a kid either...but accidents happen and here she is...I would not change her for the world....she is truely a blessing!
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Waiting til I was married and almost 34 when the first of 2 came along WAS PERFECT.... wouldn't change it for the world ...AND can still out skate my 16 yr old son ( drives him MENTAL )  ....so nothing wrong with it at all ... 
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i think its great that you know what you do and do NOT want
-and if the judgements of mere busy-bodies mattered the world would be wildly different now wouldnt it ? if ppl bother you in the future,simply tell them its a private issue and not up for discussion -or remind them that they are not an important enough FRIEND to discuss the issue with some of my favorites go away lines : "what was your name again ?" "where are YOUR children ?" "gossip running dry ?" and the ever popular "thanks mom !" *if said to actual mom then walk away* a pretty universal deterent is "thank you for your opinion" -then promptly turn your back to them and walk off i realise some ppl cant handle even a hint of conflict,in this case realeasing a heavy *sigh* -then excusing yourself can equally get you dislodged from them and finally,as i tell everybody -the only opinion that matters is yours enjoy |
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Nothing wrong with NOT wanting kids, at least you are honest about what you don't want. My guess why anyone would wonder why a young female would NOT want kids is because women are that nuturing kind of human and for so many years woman have kids, it's just what they do.
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Well it's truly good to know that you don't then the one's that think they did and end up finding out that they didn't and have left in the trash some were or worst find dead
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theres nothing wrong not having kids either. its easier to run ur life. i for one have hundreds of kids. but they have there own parents. but i see them grow up
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Brenna, this is the New Members Welcome Area. Maybe you could put your posts under other topics? Just wondering.
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Brenna, this is the New Members Welcome Area. Maybe you could put your posts under other topics? Just wondering. ummmmm nope sorry i post wear i want to sorry not to be rude |
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Brenna, this is the New Members Welcome Area. Maybe you could put your posts under other topics? Just wondering. ummmmm nope sorry i post wear i want to sorry not to be rude It is #9 in the forum rules..9) Post topics in the appropriate forum. For example, chat topics like "I'm bored", or "Goodnight everyone" belong in the Chit Chat forum. Members who repeatedly post topics in the wrong forum could lose their posting privileges |
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Brenna, this is the New Members Welcome Area. Maybe you could put your posts under other topics? Just wondering. ummmmm nope sorry i post wear i want to sorry not to be rude It is #9 in the forum rules..9) Post topics in the appropriate forum. For example, chat topics like "I'm bored", or "Goodnight everyone" belong in the Chit Chat forum. Members who repeatedly post topics in the wrong forum could lose their posting privileges rules rules rules big whoop |
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i think its great that you know what you do and do NOT want -and if the judgements of mere busy-bodies mattered the world would be wildly different now wouldnt it ? if ppl bother you in the future,simply tell them its a private issue and not up for discussion -or remind them that they are not an important enough FRIEND to discuss the issue with some of my favorites go away lines : "what was your name again ?" "where are YOUR children ?" "gossip running dry ?" and the ever popular "thanks mom !" *if said to actual mom then walk away* a pretty universal deterent is "thank you for your opinion" -then promptly turn your back to them and walk off i realise some ppl cant handle even a hint of conflict,in this case realeasing a heavy *sigh* -then excusing yourself can equally get you dislodged from them and finally,as i tell everybody -the only opinion that matters is yours enjoy 
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why does everyone think its strange for a 24 year old not to want kids? I don't see it as strange at all. I wish more people thought like you.... |
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I want kids so I can churn them into professional sport icons and finally by me that Ferrari Enzo Ive always wanted, lol.
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no dont have them until u r ready
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I don't think it's strange
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nothing wrong with that.
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Thu 01/17/08 02:44 PM
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I dont understand why anyone would have kids. They are nothing but a burden.
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I dont understand why anyone would have kids. They are such a burden. It's a good thing someone didn't think you were a burden.... Kid's aren't burdens they are wonderful.. We are blessed to have them..... |
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