Then you will find a woman who appreciates it as "you"

Already did, unfortunatly I messed up bad. But I know there's more out there, and 11 years later I'm wiser for the experiance;^]

we all have messed up things bad at one point bro. Those who never have.......are "perfect"

lol.. I say the ones who never have are liars..lol. That's tabernacle right there, to not learn from lifes lessons is to not grow at all;^]

right on, I screwed up so much I could be an instructor

We have all screwed up in life that is part of learning. For those that say they are never nervous have a hard time facing reality its self. We all get that way at times.

At times tho you meet those that the connections is there it may not be a love connection but a connection within the spirit so to say were they are just easy to talk to and you feel comfortable around them. Even tho they may end up as a friend the connnection is still there.

No one is perfect in this life nor will be we all have flaws but..... those flaws is what makes us the person we are within.

I hear you turtle, I am the same way. I feel like I'm on stage when I talk to women. So nervous I can't be the open person I really am. It really sucks. When I am around friends and their wives or girlfriends I can talk to those women fine, but when I am talking to a women who (might???) be interseted in myself, I might as well just forget it.

I never had that problem, I wish I could give some good advice.

Jeff.........why what'sso disarming about a woman that may be interested in you..........as chuck say's we all put our pant's on one leg at a time......


I don't know how you are i have a tendency to be a chatterbox when i'm nervous and if you seem nervous that just up's me feelings adn the more i talk...........which for some reason most people take as a sign of confidence which is the total opposite.........LOL but appearences are everything i guess

all but one of us with a special talent

LMAO i said sometimes and try it it's not as hard as it seems.............


My mother always did tell me i was "special" ussually she was rolling her eyes though...........LOL

comfidence in ones self is a must as long as it isnt over obnoxious

I guess its feeling like your in Court, everything being checked out all at once. I guess if I looked like Brad Pitt I wouldn't be so nervous. Not to say anything about my looks, its just easy when EVERY women thinks your gorgous.