I don't have anyone else that is gay in my family either. It took my mom a long time to understand but she is good with it now. I have all boy cousins and they just think its pretty cool. The are so goofy!

i'm still trying to get the gist of sending messages to you guys. lol

i'm just glad we all survived the discrimination. Here we are, still alive after the brave contributions of our gay communities. YAY, GO BABIES

its helps to have friends that understand.

welcome 2much4u

well the only ppl who know Im gay is my sister

YES, definately, i tell my other gay cousins its their own decision to come out , but never let anyone force you to.

Lucky!

When I was with my (ex) gf of almost 6 years, she got along better with my bro than I DID! I cannot share things with my dad, he just doesnt want to listen and I respect that. My mom on the other hand has drawn up a boundary and we know not to cross that... So yeah I talk to the cats a lot.

is there a reason for this? Please I am not judging..just curious

well I knew my sister would be kewl with it...just don't feel the need to tell to many others

exactly tom, i mean if your gonna come out of the closet, the best place to be is in a strong gay environment. It was sssssssssssssso embarrassing and tough for me. I mean, i'd lie to save my families reputation (which was'nt worth it) i did everything not to embarrass my families reputation, but guess what? they found out i was having sex with church decons. ha ha ha ha, my father was so embarrassed to be seen with me. But then i had to realize my feelings. What about me? So i left my families sides back to the east coast and had so much amazing sex in Washington D.C. Connecticut, New York, Boston for 9 years of peace away from them and now, i could'nt give a farth flem flarth

That is such a shame. My dad pasted and my brother was very excepting( he pasted away too).

i mean gosh, i saved myself cuz they were the embarrassments not me. None of them doctors but yet they trying to tell me how to be . what a waste of time. Boy, if those gay bars bathrooms and corners could talk. ha ha ha ha, they'd be saying "Oh god, here comes the whore again" lol

escondidobear, youve got mail hun.

Sorry for the losses sweetjeep~

Thats the only reason i came back to california, my father died in 2005 when i was in Boston, having an amazing time....this time not in the corners or alleys or opened fields having sex with bear type men, but after i came back, my family were still the same. yuk, but this time, i straight out told them where to stick that bat in their butts

Thanks, maybe that is why my mom is good with it... I am the only one left!!

thanks storm

still getting the hang of this site. dratz

Well then your just no fun tommie...