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I mean come on, i'm only 18, i know what most of you are thinking, your 18. why are you on a dating site, your still young, go out there.
Well the thing is, i'm scared to. My last relationship ended badly, i was with this guy for a year and a half. I was in love. we talked about marrige, movin in togetehr, haveing kids. everything. Untill i found out he was cheating on my six months out of the year and a half long relationship. i'm just..scared to go out there. i can't..its scary.. any ideas??? thanks for your time |
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Not all men are f'ed up like that. But enough are to where it makes women crazy. You just need to find a guy that's not a douche bag, and go from there. Experience in screwed up relationships, helps you notice things in later relationships. So the more you screw up, the better off you'll be. This coming from a total screw up.
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YOU CAN HURT AT 18 TOO......TAKE YOUR TIME.......LIFE IS SCARY NET ALONE RELATIONSHIPS SWEETIE,DO THINGS IN YOUR OWN TIME!!!SORRY ONLY COULD COME UP WITH LITTLE ADVICE!!
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see, i would....but for some reason, the only people that are attracted to me, only want me for sexual stuff..only use me..
i've never had a real relationship... 
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thank you so much, just your little advice, makes me a little happier
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see, i would....but for some reason, the only people that are attracted to me, only want me for sexual stuff..only use me.. i've never had a real relationship... Well, simple, don't put out until you damn sure he's the one. 
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That sucks.......being hurt is part of learning and growth, hang in there and be cautious
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i don't, but for some reason,
i always this he is.. then i end up getting ****ed. |
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Becca
You are way to young to be even considering marriage. Get out there go to college get an education find a job and you will find the man you seek somewhere along that path. Don't go looking for him let it happen naturally. Don't despair if it takes a while, just keep living everyday to its fullest. Find out who you are and what it is you really want out of life. |
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That sucks.......being hurt is part of learning and growth, hang in there and be cautious i am hanging on, thank you |
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Take some time for yourself to heal. You are young and it is more important for you to figure out who you are right now vs. worrying about dating! Become strong with yourself before you enter into another relationship then when the right one comes along you will be ready for him and it won't be nearly as scary!
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Becca You are way to young to be even considering marriage. Get out there go to college get an education find a job and you will find the man you seek somewhere along that path. Don't go looking for him let it happen naturally. Don't despair if it takes a while, just keep living everyday to its fullest. Find out who you are and what it is you really want out of life. YEa, THAT TOO |
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i am in collage already! i'm on a year long program in israel
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Well you'll never know who is right for you, until you've gone through a few wrong guys for you. So don't be scared, just go out there and be yourself and see what's thrown at you.
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neither of my 2 sons have ever cheated on their girlfriends..they r also 18 and 19...
so not all cheat...if they do..remember it's not about u... they r the wrong one for u...ditch them...and move forward... sounds easy..not..but u have to...u have ur whole life ahead of u....and iy's tough sometimes... these times now will help u to be able to endure the harder times in life... Take ur time...enjoy urself...get to know someone longer before u become exclusive... til then hang with us oldies..lol...til u r ready to do what ever u want.. taking a break to get over something that hurts a lot..is a great thing... xoxoxo u will be ok...
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(((((((BECCA)))))))))
YOUR WORTH MORE THAN THAT...YOUR 18 AND YOU WILL GO THRU ALOT OF EXPERIENCES AND HEART ACHE,PART OF LIFE.....DONT GIVE INTO EASILY WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO SEX!!MAKE THE GUY WAIT AND IF HIS WILLIN TO WAIT...HE MIGHT BE WORTH IT,IF NOT WELL U MOVE ON!!JUST MY TWO CENTS WORTH
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sweetie your so young...i lost my gf at age 18 thought i would die....but its all a part of life...first you have to have trust in a relationship and communication has to be there too...your so young look around and remember....you fall in love.... dont look to hard for it....belive me thats why im still single and looking....
good luck in your search
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And just remember, if love were easy, the name Bobbit would have no meaning.
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(((((((BECCA))))))))) YOUR WORTH MORE THAN THAT...YOUR 18 AND YOU WILL GO THRU ALOT OF EXPERIENCES AND HEART ACHE,PART OF LIFE.....DONT GIVE INTO EASILY WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO SEX!!MAKE THE GUY WAIT AND IF HIS WILLIN TO WAIT...HE MIGHT BE WORTH IT,IF NOT WELL U MOVE ON!!JUST MY TWO CENTS WORTH with him, we never ran out of things to say, we would always laught together cry, he was even there for me when i was in the hospital for two months. he came and saw me everyday.. brought me new flowers everday |
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(((((((BECCA))))))))) YOUR WORTH MORE THAN THAT...YOUR 18 AND YOU WILL GO THRU ALOT OF EXPERIENCES AND HEART ACHE,PART OF LIFE.....DONT GIVE INTO EASILY WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO SEX!!MAKE THE GUY WAIT AND IF HIS WILLIN TO WAIT...HE MIGHT BE WORTH IT,IF NOT WELL U MOVE ON!!JUST MY TWO CENTS WORTH with him, we never ran out of things to say, we would always laught together cry, he was even there for me when i was in the hospital for two months. he came and saw me everyday.. brought me new flowers everday My heart was shattered before sweetie, it just takes time, nothing anyone can say will fix it, just keep in mind there's someone better out there. |
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