thank u

there are better guys out there im sure you will eventually find one and here you will find some friends that have been through the same thing so ...you are not alone ....

thank you tombraider...

that is true, i know, that i will find someone else,
i guess i'm just down about it, and looking for soemoen to cheer me up

Ok Becca
Hun you have to have a better view of yourself. At 18 you have sooo much to look forward too. Find yourself and figure out what makes you happy. Learn what makes you..you. And then dont settle for anything less than what you want. Are you going to find someone who is absolutly perfect. No. But perfection is never there. Its something you and your partner can strive to achieve. Just look for the one who is compatable,then together go forward to reach perfection.

And hun I got married at 19 with someone I was with for 4 yrs. Divorced a yr and a half latter. I caught her cheating. So things seem so bad at the time but I can assure you time heals all wounds. And when you find yourself things will get soo much better... Good Luck and have fun.

thats absolutley terrible, im sorry

i mean its kinda embarassing,
all my friends have been with their boyfriend for like five years,
we were together for a year
he cheated on me, i'm still scared by it..
i lost my virginity to him cause i tghouth he was the one

thats absolutley terrible, im sorry

i mean its kinda embarassing,
all my friends have been with their boyfriend for like five years,
we were together for a year
he cheated on me, i'm still scared by it..
i lost my virginity to him cause i tghouth he was the one

Hun Unfortunatly most people are not still with their firsts.

i promised i would save my self for the one..


ugh

i wish virginity was a thing u coudl take back

i feel really sorry for you, and you look like a sweet girl and a really smart girl with a good head on your shoulder's.

Just wait for that other one to come along.
It's bond to happen for you.

Virginity these days is so passe. I think the average age for losing it, is around 15. And that's bad in itself, but don't frete, there is life after the first guy you've been with.

thts true i gues...

I always look for the good in every aspect of things. Even with this thnk of it as a learning experience. Yes its something that you cant get back but at the age of 18 to only have had 1 partner that in comendable. Dont be so hard on yourself. You might not have your virginity but at least you can still have your life. The world can be your backyard. Plant some seeds and watch what grows. You have soo much too look forward too.

please can hurt at 18 you can hurt at any age!!! Just because she is 18 and young doesn't mean she doesn't have a right to hurt and be scared! Everyone no matter what age has a right for that

thank you so much gracekelly,
that mad eme feel like u really care

there are many wonderful men and women on this site who will be your friends and your support if you allow them. welcome to jsh.



talk about your feelings for support. and try to understand that there are still many people out there who are quite trustworthy and look forward to meeting them and enjoy them when you find them!!

So very true. If you ever need some advice I'll be here to listen. Take care.

i have major trust issues.
i don't trust just antone
i don't even trust m arents

hEAL yourself and then move on.......not everyone is a liar or a cheat but there are many that are out there. Tune into your skills of figuring out people....before they mess with your mind and heart!

Make friends and spend time having fun with things that interest you. Take it easy. Take it one day at a time. One of the best ways to meet a partner is through mutual friends. It takes the pressure off. Just be you and stop obsessing about the potential for someone to cheat on you. If they are the type to do it, they will do it no matter what. You cannot control others or their actions - you can only control your reactions to them. Live each day, each moment with grace.

Love & Light,
~angelfire

trust me i kno... when you stop lookin youll find wut you want wut you need. juss focuse on your self on your own life. stop thinkin that you need 2 move on with sum 1 else you need 2 realize you dont need any 1 but yourself in this world.

im not sayin you aint hurt but think of it like this. other people have been thru worst things and have moved on why cant you...