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IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Tue 01/15/08 09:22 PM
In a relationship between a man and woman where we consider ourselves equals.. Are there expectations of gender chores, jobs, responsibilities?

Sportie2 Joined Thu 11/22/07 Posts: 84	Tue 01/15/08 09:23 PM
i figure each has to do all, just in rotation...lol

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 01/15/08 09:24 PM
yes the man has to do the stuff that grosses me out

gdr441 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1009	Tue 01/15/08 09:24 PM
not for me lol

e69 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 467	Tue 01/15/08 09:24 PM
I don't believe so. In a relationship you are one and work as a team. Or has that changed over the years?

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Tue 01/15/08 09:24 PM
In a relationship between a man and woman where we consider ourselves equals.. Are there expectations of gender chores, jobs, responsibilities? The woman definately has to bear the child.

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
gotta meet in the middle, or least try,

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
I prefer to do it all!

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
I guess it all depends on the situation. Like between to housewife, and a working class woman, or a homedaddy or a buisnessman. Who does what when and where. Maybe a chore list or something?

Sportie2 Joined Thu 11/22/07 Posts: 84	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
In a relationship between a man and woman where we consider ourselves equals.. Are there expectations of gender chores, jobs, responsibilities? The woman definately has to bear the child. i'd love to see one of you guy's try it

ktee4d Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 2	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
There has to be a happy medium that can be worked out

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Tue 01/15/08 09:25 PM
yes the man has to do the stuff that grosses me out Like unplugging a clogged toilet?

ackerman_kevin Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 136	Tue 01/15/08 09:26 PM
We claim to be equals. This is not the same as being equal. At the same time, equal does not necessarily mean the same. In society, it is hard to claim that there are not expectations for everything. I'm not quite sure what your question is trying to get at here, so it is a bit hard to respond less broadly.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 01/15/08 09:26 PM
There has to be a happy medium that can be worked out I agree

gdr441 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1009	Tue 01/15/08 09:26 PM
yeah but then u would have to trade places and kicked in the balls

lonelyshorty Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 4737	Tue 01/15/08 09:26 PM
yes the man has to do the stuff that grosses me out Like unplugging a clogged toilet? uh duh that and taking the mouse out of the traps. ewww

wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Tue 01/15/08 09:27 PM
I grew up in a household where the man did all the chores outside and fixed what was needed to be fixed and the woman did all the chore inside of course the garbage was done by she placing it outside the door and he taking it away. The woman also was the money handler cause she shopped for all the things and paid the bills. She raised the kids and he worked at a job.

gregory583 Joined Wed 08/29/07 Posts: 526	Tue 01/15/08 09:27 PM
its 50/50 but i mustr agree with itsmetina ,i would handle that for you

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 01/15/08 09:27 PM
yes the man has to do the stuff that grosses me out Like unplugging a clogged toilet? i'll use the plunger if that dont work its your turn

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Tue 01/15/08 09:28 PM
I maybe wrong for saying this but I wouldn't mind it being 50 / 50, going both ways so it comes out as a team in the end of it all. But that's just my take.