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Topic: Thinking out loud ..
Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:15 PM
I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be. I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone. I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all. So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over. I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on. Don't know any more.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 01/14/08 03:17 PM
Chill out, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:18 PM
Chill out, Rome wasn't built in a day. Yup, I know that.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Mon 01/14/08 03:18 PM
wow atleast this time it is someone that has been here longer than 2 days saying this

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/14/08 03:18 PM
it's hard to be patient when u are actively seeking that special someone. they say the person comes when u least expect him or her. well, it's a depressing thought, so I have just tried to have fun while waiting...

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:21 PM
it's hard to be patient when u are actively seeking that special someone. they say the person comes when u least expect him or her. well, it's a depressing thought, so I have just tried to have fun while waiting... True, I've been very patient. I'm a very patient person but sometimes finding the right person comes with wanting to just toss in the towl.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 01/14/08 03:22 PM
Who knew this would be soo hard

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:23 PM
Who knew this would be soo hard Yeah who knew, something like this would be sooo e v e r hard.

Idndiwm136 Joined Tue 12/04/07 Posts: 201	Mon 01/14/08 03:23 PM
it's hard to be patient when u are actively seeking that special someone. they say the person comes when u least expect him or her. well, it's a depressing thought, so I have just tried to have fun while waiting... True, I've been very patient. I'm a very patient person but sometimes finding the right person comes with wanting to just toss in the towl. I am right there with ya. Feel the same way...it sucks sometimes

Callen616 Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 2	Mon 01/14/08 03:24 PM
dont worry buddy it will happen sooner or later. Think of it this way -----It all works out in the end and if it hasn't worked out yet, well then, it's not the end

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:25 PM
it's hard to be patient when u are actively seeking that special someone. they say the person comes when u least expect him or her. well, it's a depressing thought, so I have just tried to have fun while waiting... True, I've been very patient. I'm a very patient person but sometimes finding the right person comes with wanting to just toss in the towl. I am right there with ya. Feel the same way...it sucks sometimes Yeah it does suck more then sometimes.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:26 PM
dont worry buddy it will happen sooner or later. Think of it this way -----It all works out in the end and if it hasn't worked out yet, well then, it's not the end I understand that.

REDDRAGONS Joined Fri 07/27/07 Posts: 1116	Mon 01/14/08 03:27 PM
John.... There is no simple answer to your query, This I do know.... It's all a state of mind and what You focus on. being in a negative type loop effect sucks If you truly feel that being single was meant than it shall be done. If You say you are going to be single for ever fill yer boots at this point what do you have to lose? Luck has nothing to do with it , You have better odds of winning the lotto with your current outlook. tomorrow is another day.

lonelyheart36 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 470	Mon 01/14/08 03:29 PM
I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be. I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone. I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all. So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over. I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on. Don't know any more. i hear ya.i have talked to 5 women on the phone in the last two days.their profile and who they were,were so opposite lol.it makes ya really wonder.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:30 PM
John.... There is no simple answer to your query, This I do know.... It's all a state of mind and what You focus on. being in a negative type loop effect sucks If you truly feel that being single was meant than it shall be done. If You say you are going to be single for ever fill yer boots at this point what do you have to lose? Luck has nothing to do with it , You have better odds of winning the lotto with your current outlook. tomorrow is another day. Well I highly doubt I could win the lotto tomorrow if that where to happen, then great I would be very happy. I do however think some times luck has some role in life, rather it's being single, finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with, getting a head at a job or whatever. Don't know just seem's to happen that way.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:33 PM
I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be. I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone. I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all. So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over. I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on. Don't know any more. i hear ya.i have talked to 5 women on the phone in the last two days.their profile and who they were,were so opposite lol.it makes ya really wonder. True, although I never spoken to any of the women over the phone. But I have talked to them online, the funny part is sometimes it doesn't bother me if they change there profile to make it look better etc.

REDDRAGONS Joined Fri 07/27/07 Posts: 1116	Mon 01/14/08 03:37 PM
John ! even "Luck" is a positive form of thinking , if that works for You then build on it. The things we aspire to be have want in life don't just pop out of thin air....it takes work. It's about a state of mind. what you put out You attract. negative thought patterns = no chicks no chicks = not knowing and believing the negative thought system good thoughts = abundance of hot chicks. see how it works.

lonelyheart36 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 470	Mon 01/14/08 03:41 PM
I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be. I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone. I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all. So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over. I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on. Don't know any more. i hear ya.i have talked to 5 women on the phone in the last two days.their profile and who they were,were so opposite lol.it makes ya really wonder. True, although I never spoken to any of the women over the phone. But I have talked to them online, the funny part is sometimes it doesn't bother me if they change there profile to make it look better etc. 3 lied about drug use,1 was being stalked by an ex husband & a ex boyfriend lol.and the 5th was just down rite verbally abusive when i didn't want to meet lol.i know not all women are like this,but it seems to be getting worse.the only thing i can say is it's a waiting game.it sucks,but not much ya can do.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:42 PM
John ! even "Luck" is a positive form of thinking , if that works for You then build on it. The things we aspire to be have want in life don't just pop out of thin air....it takes work. It's about a state of mind. what you put out You attract. negative thought patterns = no chicks no chicks = not knowing and believing the negative thought system good thoughts = abundance of hot chicks. see how it works. Okay, thanks for your advance.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 01/14/08 03:43 PM
I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be. I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone. I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all. So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over. I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on. Don't know any more. i hear ya.i have talked to 5 women on the phone in the last two days.their profile and who they were,were so opposite lol.it makes ya really wonder. True, although I never spoken to any of the women over the phone. But I have talked to them online, the funny part is sometimes it doesn't bother me if they change there profile to make it look better etc. 3 lied about drug use,1 was being stalked by an ex husband & a ex boyfriend lol.and the 5th was just down rite verbally abusive when i didn't want to meet lol.i know not all women are like this,but it seems to be getting worse.the only thing i can say is it's a waiting game.it sucks,but not much ya can do. DAMN! I'd say you have had your fair share of bad luck. So yeah I guess there is noting more to do but wait and see.