I'm truly starting to think that maybe being single sometimes is meant to be.

I mean after all most of us will search the rest of are lifes for are so called one and only true so called love and either find that right woman or man. Or be left a lone.

I guess I am meant to be single for ever, I talk to about two woman on her one of which didn't turn out so great, the other I really do like speaking to but don't know if that's going any where if at all.

So maybe I just have to let time and luck take over.

I've tired not even bothering looking then looking now I am just thinking maybe I should just look for friends from now on.

Don't know any more.

Chill out, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Yup, I know that.

wow atleast this time it is someone that has been here longer than 2 days saying this

it's hard to be patient when u are actively seeking that special someone. they say the person comes when u least expect him or her. well, it's a depressing thought, so I have just tried to have fun while waiting...

True, I've been very patient.

I'm a very patient person but sometimes finding the right person comes with wanting to just toss in the towl.

Who knew this would be soo hard

Yeah who knew, something like this would be sooo e v e r hard.

I am right there with ya. Feel the same way...it sucks sometimes

dont worry buddy it will happen sooner or later. Think of it this way -----It all works out in the end and if it hasn't worked out yet, well then, it's not the end

Yeah it does suck more then sometimes.

I understand that.

John....

There is no simple answer to your query,

This I do know....

It's all a state of mind and what You focus on.

being in a negative type loop effect sucks

If you truly feel that being single was meant than it shall be done.

If You say you are going to be single for ever fill yer boots at this point what do you have to lose?

Luck has nothing to do with it , You have better odds of winning the lotto with your current outlook.

tomorrow is another day.

i hear ya.i have talked to 5 women on the phone in the last two days.their profile and who they were,were so opposite lol.it makes ya really wonder.

Well I highly doubt I could win the lotto tomorrow if that where to happen, then great I would be very happy.

I do however think some times luck has some role in life, rather it's being single, finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with, getting a head at a job or whatever.

Don't know just seem's to happen that way.

True, although I never spoken to any of the women over the phone.

But I have talked to them online, the funny part is sometimes it doesn't bother me if they change there profile to make it look better etc.

John !


even "Luck" is a positive form of thinking , if that works for You then build on it.

The things we aspire to be have want in life don't just pop out of thin air....it takes work.

It's about a state of mind.

what you put out You attract.


negative thought patterns = no chicks

no chicks = not knowing and believing the negative thought system

good thoughts = abundance of hot chicks.

see how it works.

3 lied about drug use,1 was being stalked by an ex husband & a ex boyfriend lol.and the 5th was just down rite verbally abusive when i didn't want to meet lol.i know not all women are like this,but it seems to be getting worse.the only thing i can say is it's a waiting game.it sucks,but not much ya can do.

Okay, thanks for your advance.

DAMN!

I'd say you have had your fair share of bad luck.

So yeah I guess there is noting more to do but wait and see.