Topic: Lost Love Found, persue or not???
ZACK777's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:16 PM
I'm not very good at these internet things so i will do my best and get to the point.
I found a lost love from a few years back and I still have strong feelings for her (always have) but she now has two young children (one and two years old) from her previous relationship (single mom now). I love her but I can't see myself (23 years old) in school and all of a sudden trying to be the father figure for these two young kids. I just don't know what to do. What is the right thing to do, just be close friends or????

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Mon 01/14/08 12:19 PM
just see where it goes, no harm

jennyjmn720's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:19 PM
just carry on being friends and take it from there. if its ment to be it will be!! trust me.if not then hey you will still have your friendship

SquizTheClown's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:20 PM
Honestly, if you aren't willing to step up and be a dad, don't put yourself out there for her. There are plenty of guys who will be happy to love her and be a father figure.... I don't mean to be harsh, but if you can't do that, then you probably aren't meant to be with her.

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Mon 01/14/08 12:21 PM
do what yr heart tells ya,,,,what ever dont ever doupt her love....if you love something you must let it go....if its love it will come back if it dont it never was......and dont ever hold her finding someone aginst her....just thank your higher power you got a nother chance.....Good luck brother...THINGS ALWAYS WORK OUT:heart:

itsmetina's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:21 PM
if u love her then u'll step up and fit into her life

Johncenawlife316's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:21 PM
Depends if she wants to hook up with you and have a relationship or what.

It's also up to you if you want the same thing.

Bottom line, take it slow and just see where it goes. Maybe as friends first then see what happens from there.

Not to sure what else to tell you.

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Mon 01/14/08 12:22 PM

I'm not very good at these internet things so i will do my best and get to the point.
I found a lost love from a few years back and I still have strong feelings for her (always have) but she now has two young children (one and two years old) from her previous relationship (single mom now). I love her but I can't see myself (23 years old) in school and all of a sudden trying to be the father figure for these two young kids. I just don't know what to do. What is the right thing to do, just be close friends or????
friendship always first.why did she disapear in the first place?details needed.lol.

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Mon 01/14/08 12:23 PM

do what yr heart tells ya,,,,what ever dont ever doupt her love....if you love something you must let it go....if its love it will come back if it dont it never was......and dont ever hold her finding someone aginst her....just thank your higher power you got a nother chance.....Good luck brother...THINGS ALWAYS WORK OUT:heart:


Are you in recovery mike?

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Mon 01/14/08 12:24 PM
If you loved her so much why did you split up in the first place ! If it did not work out then...It won't work out now !

Amalie's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:26 PM
just be her friend... if you cant commit to the children dont hurt them by you just wanting to test the waters.. talk to her about it away from the kids.. just remember she is a package deal!!

ZACK777's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:33 PM
We went off to college in different states and just lost contact over time.

ZACK777's photo
Mon 01/14/08 12:37 PM
You guys are so cool here, so many responses in so little time. I think being friends would be the best thing and if it becomes more in the future then thats cool. Thanks:heart:

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Mon 01/14/08 01:07 PM

You guys are so cool here, so many responses in so little time. I think being friends would be the best thing and if it becomes more in the future then thats cool. Thanks:heart:
i wish you the best bro.drinker