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Topic: Bad kisser
Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:21 PM
What if you really like someone...and they are a perfect match...BUT, they SUCK at kissing (and not in a good way)laugh .


What do you do?

Leave them?

Stay with them and get used to sloppy, tongue action?

Or tell them....and if you do, how can you tell them with out them taking it personal or hurting their feelings?

Tobias1540's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:22 PM
Tell them that you like it when they do...... Even if they never have done that before they will get the hint and be glad you were nice about it.

madamx7316's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:22 PM
talk to them. maybe help him or her learn the way you like it

dragonwhyr's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:23 PM
gently try to coach them over time, but either way if they are a perfect match, then it shouldn't matter.

TattooedDude81's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:23 PM
Good question, I have no idea. When I tend to really like someone, I never tell them laugh Nowadays that is.

no photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:25 PM

What if you really like someone...and they are a perfect match...BUT, they SUCK at kissing (and not in a good way)laugh .


What do you do?

Leave them?

Stay with them and get used to sloppy, tongue action?

Or tell them....and if you do, how can you tell them with out them taking it personal or hurting their feelings?
teach them,practice makes perfect.

Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:26 PM
so maybe if you dont like their kissing....perhaps it wasnt meant to be?

blades26's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:26 PM
teach them lol, being a good kisser requires practice...and if a person gets offended that are a bad kisser...which most wouldnt...most just get imbarressed

so live with it or adjust to it..im sure people would try to change though if u brought it up in a nice way

kinda touchy subject though :wink:

KAY KAY 's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:26 PM
Tell them straight out and teach them the correct way.

brian325's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:27 PM
I taught Madamx how to kiss, now she goes around kissing everybody grumble

laugh laugh laugh

nonchalantwendy's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:27 PM

Good question, I have no idea. When I tend to really like someone, I never tell them laugh Nowadays that is.


I think that passion starts from a good kiss amd more likely than not you have alot mor passion than him if he doesn't kiss you the same way...Passion comes from within..it is not something that is taught.........

Italy0219's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:28 PM
Some people just can't be taught, it's kinda like dancing, you either can or can't. You will get tired of it sooner or later and it will probably be the deal breaker....

Tobias1540's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:29 PM


Good question, I have no idea. When I tend to really like someone, I never tell them laugh Nowadays that is.


I think that passion starts from a good kiss amd more likely than not you have alot mor passion than him if he doesn't kiss you the same way...Passion comes from within..it is not something that is taught.........


I disagree its all about practice and technique it noone teaches the guy how to kiss well he is never going to get better.

kcflower's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:30 PM
Kissing is really important to the ladies (at least in my opinion). I would second the suggestive technique idea. What if you say can we try???...(what you do like).

Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:31 PM
Maybe people have different kissing styles?


I like 70% of my kisses closed mouth, 30% a little tongue & a little lip sucking, etc

So too much tongue to me is grosssick


madamx7316's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:31 PM

I taught Madamx how to kiss, now she goes around kissing everybody grumble

laugh laugh laugh



oh brian i love you xoxoxoxolaugh laugh :tongue:

no photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:31 PM

What if you really like someone...and they are a perfect match...BUT, they SUCK at kissing (and not in a good way)laugh .


What do you do?

Leave them?

Stay with them and get used to sloppy, tongue action?

Or tell them....and if you do, how can you tell them with out them taking it personal or hurting their feelings?


leave them?
thats pretty retarded.
its called practice and communication.

nonchalantwendy's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:31 PM



Good question, I have no idea. When I tend to really like someone, I never tell them laugh Nowadays that is.


I think that passion starts from a good kiss amd more likely than not you have alot mor passion than him if he doesn't kiss you the same way...Passion comes from within..it is not something that is taught.........


I disagree its all about practice and technique it noone teaches the guy how to kiss well he is never going to get better.


My guess is that you are not a very passionate person....

thinman987's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:32 PM
If thats his style of kissing, in his mind its a pre-lude to sex, so it's lustful...It's hard not to get excited when kissing..

It's also hard to appreciate kissing the way women do. Beware, his kiss is full of lust, but at least he wants to kiss u...but over time as lust dissipates, so will any desire for kissing.

thinman987's photo
Sun 01/13/08 04:37 PM
I think it's sweet that you like closed mouth kissing the majority of the time....perhaps if most women kissed like that, sex could be delayed, and appreciated, instead of rushed because two animals are kissing like porn stars..

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