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So, I broke up with my GF bout a year ago. Haven't seen her until about 4 days ago when she told me she had my baby. Not pregnant with, but already had. She never told me she was pregnant, she never told me she was born. I've missed out on seeing my only child born. I missed out on her first Christmas. And on top of all that, she's getting married next month, less than a year after we broke up. The whole situation just tears my heart out. I haven't slept since I found out. If there's anyone out there who's not too shocked to give advice, please.... help me.
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She is coming after your money... RUN!!!
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can you say 18 years of child support
she had your baby and now she married another guy I really do not want to say what I think she is |
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not been funny here but you need a lawyer...a, to check this is your child and b, to see where you stand with your rights to see the child etc
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wow..thats pretty crappy to do to someone..i would take her ass to court and fight for costody of the child..sorry that happen to u..but try to have faith and it will get better..but i'd fight to get that kid if i were you..
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So, I broke up with my GF bout a year ago. Haven't seen her until about 4 days ago when she told me she had my baby. Not pregnant with, but already had. She never told me she was pregnant, she never told me she was born. I've missed out on seeing my only child born. I missed out on her first Christmas. And on top of all that, she's getting married next month, less than a year after we broke up. The whole situation just tears my heart out. I haven't slept since I found out. If there's anyone out there who's not too shocked to give advice, please.... help me. I would establish paternity before you do anything then take it from there.this sounds very fishy. |
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See.. I told you ... LOL... She just wants your cash....
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You May not be the father happend to me yrs ago...let her go her own way....ask god if its yours and things will go ok for ya....life goes on brother....and it gets better...from an old fart mike
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hay ill ask my owner....he looks pretty dumb but ya never know?? Peggy sue the dog
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she will use you as a means of a salary....the system is not set up to protect the men...
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So, I broke up with my GF bout a year ago. Haven't seen her until about 4 days ago when she told me she had my baby. Not pregnant with, but already had. She never told me she was pregnant, she never told me she was born. I've missed out on seeing my only child born. I missed out on her first Christmas. And on top of all that, she's getting married next month, less than a year after we broke up. The whole situation just tears my heart out. I haven't slept since I found out. If there's anyone out there who's not too shocked to give advice, please.... help me. Ok first a few probing questions. Does she want you to be involved? Are you sure it yours? Is your name listed on the birth certificate? Answer those first. Second if all the answers above are yes then you need to be involved and pursue being a father to your daughter. Now hopefully your ex is more concerned about her daughter knowing her father. Her getting married shouldn't make a difference at all, just because she found another man to be with isn't a reason for you not to be her father. If she is not cooperating you will have to get an attorney and pursue a paternity test and go in front of a judge and he will change what needs to be changed for you to be your daughters father. Hope that helps. BTW it's great you want to be involved in your daughters life. The world needs more dads like you. Congradulations on your fatherhood. |
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So, I broke up with my GF bout a year ago. Haven't seen her until about 4 days ago when she told me she had my baby. Not pregnant with, but already had. She never told me she was pregnant, she never told me she was born. I've missed out on seeing my only child born. I missed out on her first Christmas. And on top of all that, she's getting married next month, less than a year after we broke up. The whole situation just tears my heart out. I haven't slept since I found out. If there's anyone out there who's not too shocked to give advice, please.... help me.  First I would make SURE there is even a BABY.
Then if their is I would take a test to prove who the father is. THEN, if you are the dad, go to court and lay out your rights to seeing and having her. But above all, DON't FEEL like ITS a BAD THING... All things HAPPEN for a reason, and LIFE HAPPENS for a reason! You just need to find out if your really a dad, and the LOVE that CHILD......  
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just take care and love your child.
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Oh and don't forget to get a DNA test. She could have been screwing uncle henrey without your knowledge.
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Haven't gotten maternity test yet, but that little girl looks just like me and not a thing like her mother. The story goes so much deeper than what I've posted, but I'll spare you all the details. Point is, keeping my only baby secret from me, is a crime. It's these little things in her life that I'll never see again. I can't stop thinking about how tiny she may have been when she came out. I have no idea. I should have been one of the first people to hold her, and this monster has denied me of that.
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Haven't gotten maternity test yet, but that little girl looks just like me and not a thing like her mother. The story goes so much deeper than what I've posted, but I'll spare you all the details. Point is, keeping my only baby secret from me, is a crime. It's these little things in her life that I'll never see again. I can't stop thinking about how tiny she may have been when she came out. I have no idea. I should have been one of the first people to hold her, and this monster has denied me of that. What is done,is done my friend.Now its time to take action so you don't miss out anymore moments.Good luck and please keep us updated. 
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Sorry to tell you. It isn't a crime..
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3 ladys gave you the best advice you could ask for,get a lawer and get the straight about child,and what ever you dont sign any papers till you talk to an attorny and have the blood tests infront of you!!!!!lissen to what those 3 young ladys have said.thats the key rite there!!!
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I'm getting DNA to be sure, but I almost don't need it. She wants me in the childs life, but simply seeing her rips me to pieces. I'm still in love with her and I've tried to get her back this whole time she's been away. She had ample opportunity to tell me. I don't know if she has something against me or what, but the whole situation is Bull ****.
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Haven't gotten maternity test yet, but that little girl looks just like me and not a thing like her mother. The story goes so much deeper than what I've posted, but I'll spare you all the details. Point is, keeping my only baby secret from me, is a crime. It's these little things in her life that I'll never see again. I can't stop thinking about how tiny she may have been when she came out. I have no idea. I should have been one of the first people to hold her, and this monster has denied me of that. |
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