I do not understand this mutal match thing. I get an e-mail that says....

"3 new people have said that they are interested in meeting you through Mutual Match, but you have not rated them yet."

Who are they? When I click on mutal match there are so many men that this feature is misssing a step. Who are they? Why should i have to rate them if they are already interested in me. I should just be able to read thier profile and send them an e-mail if I am interested. By rating them after they have alerted this mutal match seems to lose something if I do not know who is interested in me.

Thanks and please explain to me how I find out who is interested. How do I tell since the information is not sent to me in my personal e-mail account. I get the e-mail alert but who are they?

Thanks!

Well its kinda random. You have to see their photo and say you'd possibly be interested in them. And you don't know who they are, until both say yes or maybe.

Ahh this one!! I have not been able to figure it out myself

I think it is just a way to get you on the site often. The more often you are online the more people will find you, and I guess it is also meant to break the ice. You're right though there is a step missing because it doesn't show you exactly who wants to meet you, it seems to just show you random people, sometimes people you have already rated.

that one is odd............

I finealy ignored it.

If anyone figures it out,tell me please.

I FIND IT A LITTLE CHILDISH.I'M IN MY 50'S AND AS A GROWN MAN IF YOU CANNOT EMAIL ME DIRECTLY, HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY RELATE TO ME ON A DATE.

Thank you, that is what I was thinking. I was on here last night and I said no to one and there he was again.

LAST SAT. NIGHT I TRIED TO PUT TOGETHER A GET TOGETHER. I EMAILED 30 MEN AND 30 WOMAN TO MEET ME FOR A FEW LAUGHS AND SOME FRIENDSHIP. IT WAS A VERY WELL KNOWN ,VERY PUBLIC RESTAURANT.ONE LADY SHOWED UP.I THOUGHT FOLKS WERE ON THIS SIGHT TO MEET OTHER FOLKS,BOY WAS I WRONG!!!I WAS GOING TO REMOVE MY PROFILE BUT...