I met a man a few weeks ago on another site. He's said he's committed to himself in 2008 and won't get into a relationship until 2009. Because we've clicked so well, he's now canceled our plans for Monday night becuase he's afraid that he will like me too much to walk away. So...I just wrote this to send to him. What do you think?

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Once in a while, in everyone's life,
A spark appears to warm the night.
The thoughts, they race,
they trip, and fall
The feeling is frightening,
yet thru it all
the thought of giving in
and walking away
is the last I want,
yet I can only pray
that the fears you hold,
the personal choices
May one day be overridden
by those adamant voices
that scream in your head,
When you close your eyes
and you're laying in bed
"you cant walk away
from something that's right!
You can't let it control you,
that fear, that fright!"
Just one day, a few hours at most.
to see your smile, and not a ghost
of the past come to haunt,
but a future that's bright
Just a few hours, on Monday night.

I like it. Go for it !

That was very nice

Aww, thanks, Tren...I sent it to him. We'll see what happens.

Thanks ladies! I appreciate your feedback!

Well, he's chosen to walk away and not even give it a chance because of the promise he made to himself.

A very beautiful and heartfelt plea,but and here's the but...........Do you want to sell yourself short? Would you happily settle in a relationship where you would be putting 95% of the effort when his 5% would be just being there and take all the love and care you obviously possess and would happily share,hun,give this guy a wide berth and save yourself for someone who deserves a good soul like you.Peace

Maybe it just wasnt meant to be...

He told me I need to go find someone that would appreciate me the way I deserve. He said he cares too much already and therefore has cut all ties so he won't fall. I have no choice but to accept it, and I will. I know things work out the way they're supposed to, but that doesn't always mean it's easy to accept.

I'll be okay. I'm not broken. Slightly bruised, but I'll be fine.

I'm not hurt, just disappointed.

Could be an excuse..........