well in our defense, we arent always trying to play games!
sometimes we just can't make up our minds sorry, guys!

Exactly! I understand being upset with the "opposite" sex but why make everyone out that way? Why not just say "this woman pissed me off she's mean a jerk or whatever"? Why do all women suck b/c one screwed someone over or wasn't interested??

alot of men play games... it's not just women. What game in particular happened to you?

i agree it works both ways..

I think that is a gross generalization....Not ALL women play mind games - nor do ALL men. Unfortunately, some do and we shouldn't let that spoil it for all the others at all...or else there is absolutely no hope!

Oh no, I knew this was going to happen

You are right...now everybody big group hug. Come on now.

You tried to warn him.. I don't even think he's here anymore hah talk smack and run...

intellectual monopoly?


Can I be the top hat?

a female approached me via email and asked if i m interested , she looked pretty genuine to me , so i emailed her couple of time , she even asked my email address and all but now do even reply for no known reason

ooops missed out DONT "but now SHE dont even reply for no known reason"

Not all do and guys do it too big time!

that was for a point.....why to PEOPLE play games?

Awesome

ok everyone i'm bringing an end to this....

on a 97% basis... PEOPLE SUCK!

how's that? generally broad enough to cover everyone while still leaving that 3% of people who everyone on the planet can believe their part of?

let's face it, games are played for a multitude of reasons, for a relationship to work 2 people much be open with one another, and be able to discuss what they want. What they want in life, and what they want in a relationship... and if they change their mind on something, they need to be open about that too.

It's happened to me as well, i've been the victim of games, and let me tell you i've WATCHED karma come back around, seen it happen!

The thing that sucks and the reason everyone says "why do men/women play games" is because a lot of people out there don't like confrontation, so instead of just DEALING with something, they avoid it, which then the other partner later feels as if they've been played.


breaking any ice here yet? i'm going to bed y'all, have fun with my opinion as you will.

-Marcus

lets not forget some of them lie!

There could be a very good reason she hasn't responded...maybe something happened in her 'real' life, give her a break...send her an email and ask if she's ok.
Yeah, maybe she changed her mind or something, but that doesn't necessarily mean she was playing with you! (maybe..but maybe not too!!!)

I strongly recommend all guys read the book, "The Rules Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right."

It explains the game process. I don't agree with it.

i know she read all my mails and i can see her online entire day

I decided to try international women and found they play games as well but not games to deter a man from showing his true feelings for her. They are rather affectionate, loving and caring. The only game I see is how can they get you to get closer to them! Good news for the men that are sick of games. Just got back from Columbia and fell in love 10 times. Plan on going back, hell maybe I will marry one of those young 20 year olds