Topic: sngle mom needs advice
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Thu 01/10/08 07:06 PM
OMG someone help lol i apparently am allergic to men ( joking here people) it seems lately I cant find a good honest person. the last 5 men basically in the end have told me what i wnated to hear..do the deed and then just "disappear" my uestin is........just how and when do u knwo they are telling the truth? i apparently cant tell lol any advice?

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:08 PM

OMG someone help lol i apparently am allergic to men ( joking here people) it seems lately I cant find a good honest person. the last 5 men basically in the end have told me what i wnated to hear..do the deed and then just "disappear" my uestin is........just how and when do u knwo they are telling the truth? i apparently cant tell lol any advice?
devil

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:09 PM
I see this alot , What type of guys are you going for

dbreazy's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:09 PM
You never will knowdevil

dbreazy's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:09 PM
Just kidding:wink:

Nervesgone's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:10 PM
laugh laugh laugh

connorsmom1's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:10 PM
Um...wait to "do the deed" until you are relativly sure that not all they are after.

Moondark's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:11 PM
no do the deed. Tell em not until you've been dating so many months. If they are still with you then, they are good ones. If not, then they are the bad ones. Of course, a bad one just might have that much patience, but guys just after sex won't.

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Thu 01/10/08 07:11 PM
Not too sure what your saying...all I can say is, I talk to the person frequently,so that I can pick up on "just what they are looking for" When I get that gut instinct to run....I RUN FOR THE HILLS noway

Queene123's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:11 PM
oh!! boy !! have i been in your shoes, im also a single mom and grandmother of 3 and there is this guy i met awhile back and i feel some ways hes not telling me the truth and then in other ways i feel he is.. its hard to tell..and yea and most of the time there looking for one thing and that not what is on my mind.........noway noway

sweetnspicy4u's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:11 PM
sometimes you never know. It comes with trust and if you've been burned, and you have, its really hard to trust and you start thinking all men are the same, which they aren't. Keeping looking you will find one who deserves you.

mnhiker's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:12 PM
Well if they act nervous,
change the subject a lot,
or don't look you in the eye
when you're asking them a
direct question then they're
probably not telling the
truth.

And it might be a good
idea not to sleep with
them too soon, because,
as you indicated, they
got what they wanted,
so therefore felt no
need to stick around.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:12 PM
huh What's the DEED???

Like on your house???

nurjoyce's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:13 PM
it is hard to tell if anyone if truthful.

Nervesgone's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:17 PM

huh What's the DEED???

Like on your house???



Come to me and I'll show you catch!!:wink: flowerforyou drinker

stevex86's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:18 PM
Do the deed means play monopoly right, thats what I usually do, LOL. Great game, but I want all the railraods .

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Thu 01/10/08 07:19 PM
I have a friend who wouldnt sleep with her bf until they both had aids tests done....that slowed it down for a bit....he still ended up being a jerk though....noway laugh noway

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Thu 01/10/08 07:19 PM
laugh it off...change the subject..what ru projecting??? if ur prof says wanting a relationship or dating then that goes with the terrritory.besides wats wrong with a little retuitive sex..lol just have safe fun. k. take it easy

Think's photo
Thu 01/10/08 07:26 PM
Some People play games guys and girls. Could it be how your Dad was. Like did he treat your mom like that. If so you need to step back and reevaluate wht youthink is attractive. Because you are attracted to something you may not be able to expplain in words but it is common with all the men you've dated. So step back regroup try to not be affraid to like a good guy. I mean maybe you think a good guy would not like you. I am sure you would be wrong