we as weman do tend to be drawn to sensitive men, because they act like
they really care about what we like or want or need. this type of man is
a jewel. because he really cares. he is most likely to be looked over,
but slow and steady wins the race. he is always there when you need him.

Steve,

Of course there are sensitive men! Andrew seems to be one, for example.
"Sensitive does not mean "sissy"..."Sensitive" can also translate to
"compassionate" and "empathetic".

FYI: JUVENILE (adjective): reflecting psychological or intellectual
immaturity : CHILDISH

So I guess calling people names would qualify?

WELL I GUESS WITH THIS TOPIC YOU CAN PICK OUT THE SENSITIVE ONES,ME
NOTHING REALY GETS TO ME,IM NOT VERY SENSITIVE.BUT I DO CARE DEEPLY,I DO
VOLUNTEER WORK FOR MISSING CHILDREN,ITS REAL HEARTBREAKING WORK BUT IF I
LET IT GET TO ME,IT WOULD BE POINTLESS.I KEEP MY 'EMOTIONS' IN CHECK

I think someone hit the nail on the head earlier on this one.. some
people have a need to feel important, and if you dont take care of the
little "sensitive" stuff, then they don't feel that way.. and the need
is so strong for them, that it hurts when the person closest to them is
unable to satisfy it.

Alright i have never done this b4 so i hope i do it right!
First everyone one here is acting like its a big that women cry over not
getting flowers on there annivercy (spellin problem)or just over sum
thing that might get 2 us but what u guys fail to realize is that even
thou u see our softer side 2day 2marrow will cum and 2day wont mean a
thing. And as for the big bad girl u might not have cryed while givin
birth but as soon as that child was in ur arms i know u cryed so don't
play hard bec everyone has sumthing that gets 2 them even the guys ty 4
takin the ti me 2 hear me out

Steve-
Why are you here then looking for WHAT?
Women are sensitive Get over it-Its been that way since the beginning of
time and your complaining isnt going to change it.
Maybe you were just raised to think all men are supposed to be so tough
all the time. Men and women are vastly different as part of Gods plan.
We offer different things to our children which is supposed to make them
productive in society.
Women are supposed to be nurturing. Sensitivity is much better than
callous selfishness where you can't give alittle to make
another person smile and feel cared for. But to some men
apparently-women are only an object to fufill a physical need.
You meet some gruff manly b*ith that slaps you around I hope that'll
make you feel better-OR maybe Then we see who cries.

perhaps crybaby was the wrong word. Perhaps I meant, can I find a women
a bit more pragmatic about the important things. For instance, are
flowers really that important? I think they are a waste of money.
Shouldn't it mean more that I take her out w/e she feels like it?

It's like 1/2 the women I date were daddy's girls and got whatever they
wanted as a child, and they still have that attitude as grown adult
women.

women look for different things in relationships..it's like weddings
except for the person i'm marrying, i don't care about anything else(the
invitation patterns,the flowers,the f'n seatin chart) but they get into
it. my first serious relationship i thought i had it made until i found
out she was keeping track of our first date anniversary...what the hell
is that?

you need to find a girl that has allergies and your problems will be
solved my man

there is a diff between sensitive towards your feelings and being a sap
.....i mean the guy is supposed to dry tears and make you feel better
not sit and cry with you . so i see steves point there .....also i knew
girls who would smear their mascara just to play on a guys heart strings
or to take advantage of a guy.so ive seen first hand the crybaby act
used as a trump card its like playin monopoly and pullin a guilt trip
card from community chest example ....you pelled the guilt trip card
take 200 bucks from the person to your right and send them directly to
the doghouse do not pass go do not collect 200 dollors

WELL IM NO CRYBABY

thats good paterafan ..im always a fan of a strong woman you remind me
of my older sister you and her are alot alike only she used to scrap
just like one of the boys she kinda had too no girly girl was dumb
enough to piss her off i tell you shed go see slayer and be right in the
pit hahaha

I think the reason women are so sensitive is because God thought we
needed some way to pore out our hearts and express
our selves. After all we got the bad end of life. Having babies
and raising the babies. PMs and medopause. I think sometime women are
alot stonger than some men. Would the handle the pain.
I think not but we do it all the time.

if women got the respec and gratitude they desreved from men on a dailey
basis we would be fine and dont you think that its preety sad that the
only time u pay attention to us is when we are crying.....RESPECT AND
GRATATUDE

I think crying has nothing to with NOT being strong. I personally dont
not cry over everything -but I am deeply touched by some things and
saddened.If we werent meant to cry why do we have tearducts.(hey men
have those too by the way) LOL
In todays time it is easy to become desensitized if you arent careful.
Personally I think it takes avery strong man to show emotion. And by the
way Steve flowers are great- But It would be nice for men to get
creative. Im not one of those girls you have to shower with gifts for me
to know you care. Time is very valuable to me. We are all different and
we all have our own "love language".

@Arm_candy: OK, I am really really really trying hard not to be
offensive, but you just said women deserve "respect" and your screenname
is "Arm Candy"... Also you are reasonably attractive and you have a
great smile, but that is not the point. :D

hey its a woman's job to be sensitive!!!! I mean i understand crying
over not getting flowers thats ridiculous! but were sensitive and that's
just something you have to live with! wait until you get married and
your wife is pregnant! it gets 100x's worse! i cried when i was pregnant
because we ran out of ice cream, or because there was a crumb on the
floor, or simply because my dh forgot to take out the garbage!

yeah it does man if you had a self concious woman before just wait whoa
nothing like looking like you have a watermellon strapped to your mid
section to have a woman get all selfconcious

Wow I loved being pregnant with my kids. I never cried during that time
and i never cried because i didnt get stupid flowers. I say dam u want
them that bad walk outside and pick some. If your with a guy that dont
get them for you find someone else who does. As far as women being cry
babies well there are some who are and some who are not find the right
one.