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Having been in both sides of infidelity I became somewhat interested in the whole subject and have done some rather indepth reading on the subject. First infidelity (here after refered to as cheating) takes place either verbally (an affair of emotion without physical contact) or sexually (no explanation required). Conservative sociologic data indicates that upwards of 70% of men and 50% of women have physical affairs within 9 years of being married. There is no good data on cheating within no-married couples nor is there any data on emotional affairs. One additional interesting data point is that women are more likely ot be able to forgive a physical affair when there was no emotional connection.("she didn't mean a thing to me, it was only sex") but men are far less likely to be able to get past physical cheating and are very unlikely to even detect an emotional affair that their wive might be having. Just food for thought.
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking 
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Having been in both sides of infidelity I became somewhat interested in the whole subject and have done some rather indepth reading on the subject. First infidelity (here after refered to as cheating) takes place either verbally (an affair of emotion without physical contact) or sexually (no explanation required). Conservative sociologic data indicates that upwards of 70% of men and 50% of women have physical affairs within 9 years of being married. There is no good data on cheating within no-married couples nor is there any data on emotional affairs. One additional interesting data point is that women are more likely ot be able to forgive a physical affair when there was no emotional connection.("she didn't mean a thing to me, it was only sex") but men are far less likely to be able to get past physical cheating and are very unlikely to even detect an emotional affair that their wive might be having. Just food for thought. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! |
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Edited by
codelockbox
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Thu 01/10/08 10:52 AM
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Thanks. I speak from the heart about this topic. I have been cheated on, and I am sure a lot of others reading or on JSH have been also.
Cheating hurts people. Marriages have been destroyed because of cheating. People have been killed/ or lost there life due to cheating. Put in hospitals because of cheating. Hell in worst cases it even can change a persons entire perspective of how love and dating is supposed to work. Loss of trust. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! sometimes though cheating IS a sensitive subject, but still life is to short to be serious ALL THE TIME 
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never did, never have, & never will it ain't werth the headache or trouble.
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! sometimes though cheating IS a sensitive subject, but still life is to short to be serious ALL THE TIME i know i just love to have fun aand i see u do to! |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! Knock Knock... |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! I see that now, I am I am just so slow to read a topic, in which a subject that has hurt so many in life, as a joke. I will try to be quicker next time. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! I see that now, I am I am just so slow to read a topic, in which a subject that has hurt so many in life, as a joke. I will try to be quicker next time. lol, at least your honest. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! I see that now, I am I am just so slow to read a topic, in which a subject that has hurt so many in life, as a joke. I will try to be quicker next time. lol, at least your honest. Thanks... |
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NO! That's playing games! If you don't put 100% into the relationship you have, why exspect someone to give it back to you! If you don't want the one your with than just be honest about it! They'll respect you for it, as well as yourself! Or maybe NOT!!!!! Good luck finding whatever it is your looking for! Sincerely Jazzie
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NO! That's playing games! If you don't put 100% into the relationship you have, why exspect someone to give it back to you! If you don't want the one your with than just be honest about it! They'll respect you for it, as well as yourself! Or maybe NOT!!!!! Good luck finding whatever it is your looking for! Sincerely Jazzie you are right. |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. I didn't care for it either....that isn't a topic to take lightly....however it is just my opinion... |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! I see that now, I am I am just so slow to read a topic, in which a subject that has hurt so many in life, as a joke. I will try to be quicker next time. lol, at least your honest. Thanks... i aint dissin the subject man i was just throwin in a little joke to try and make a couple people smile i know cheating sucks! |
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i was just joking guys!!!! i know to get out of a relationship if any of that happens!lol!! guess some people dont have a sense of humor, i could tell right away you were joking thank you i know there is some people on here who are so serious all the time they need to just loosen up and joke around to and have some fun!! I didnt see the Knock, Knock in the beginning of the post. Sorry. not all jokes start with knock knock! I see that now, I am I am just so slow to read a topic, in which a subject that has hurt so many in life, as a joke. I will try to be quicker next time. lol, at least your honest. Thanks... i aint dissin the subject man i was just throwin in a little joke to try and make a couple people smile i know cheating sucks! alright lets all start a new post and be nice. lol |
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Me i thought about it but i figure its not worth losing your man over it just for a little fling and i thought what was the point in getting in a relationship if your just going to cheat on that person Fact of the matter is also that just because you think about it you don't have to act on it. While I have as I said thought about it. I have never acted on it until either One he did it first and then I don't see it as cheating. Or two he made it very clear it is over and he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore. Thus again if it's over it is also not cheating. If they are loyal then you have to be loyal back or end it. What a person thinks doesn't have to be acted upon. |
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