Do any of you woman out there know what you want? Actually some of you do. Believe it or not it's usually the women in thier twenties that have thier heads on straight. What happens when a woman hits thier mid 30's and 40's? Do you just give up?
I would like to date or become involved with someone in my own age group say between 35 & 45. For some reason every woman I've talked to at that age has been jaded or is looking for something that doesn't exist.
I've dated a few on here. They are good people. They just didn't really know what they wanted. Most are so stuck in thier past relationships that a guy doesn't even stand a chance. I didn't hurt you. Don't blame me for what someone else did... Don't get me wrong I thinks it's a good thing to talk about your past. That's how you get over it. I just don't like to be catagorized into some group in which I do not belong.
For you few that have actually tried to make something work and have failed...My heart goes out to you. For those that sit around whining that thier "Prince Charming" hasn't arrived...I hope you like to be alone. Life is what you make of it...The key word being "You". That means you need to take a chance on something.
There are alot of good men on here. Take some time (With an open mind) to get to know one of them for more than two minutes before you make a decision. If you really want what you say you do then maybe, just maybe, you'll find it. Of course you need to put a little effort into it...At least a little.
I know now why men tend to go for women that are younger than them. (And it's not all superficial) Younger woman just seem to know more about how to treat a man. You would think it should be the other way around. That's just my experience.
Go ahead comment away...But let's tell the truth, shall we.

well im not waiting for prince charming as he's taken im in my 20's and i have no idea of what i want im just having fun at the moment.I treat people the way i want to be treated which is the way i was brought up.
thankyou

My feelings exactly. I've always thought many women in their mid 30s to 40s carry ALOT of emotional baggage from their screwed up ex-relationships. They pick LOSERS and think most men are that way. I really like women in their 20s as well. They are quite refreshing!! Oh Baby!!

wait a minute that sounded bad i meant all that in a nice way

I read your profile, that's about what I'd expect from a man with absolutely no ambition that wants a WOMAN to take care of him. Grow up. Get a job. Quit drinking. Find a nice apartment, then maybe, just maybe, you might find a nice woman. Personally, I want more out of life than feeding someone like you a cold beer under a bridge while watching you pass out. Gotta go - my house, my job and my dog are waiting... Good luck. You're gonna need it.

very well put! I couldn't agree more.

Not all women know what they want.I am 30 and I know what I want. I also know what I don't want. I have met a few men and thought they were really nice, but the one thing that really turns me off is a man who is pushy and clingy! I am very picky and I decide who and what I want then I go after it. I don't play games and neither do other women. I know many younger women who play games and don't know what they want but make it seem like it, but there are the ones who do.

We don't alwyas compare guys we meet today to past relationships, but we are more cautious so we don't make the same mistake twice. Do you blame us there?

hell what did i miss?

Bitter much?

Not bitter at all! Did you read his profile? I've seen doorknobs that wanted more out of life!

No actually I didn't, until just now. I take back the bitter remark.

Thanks - I've known someone like that. It's kinda scary, really.

Susan...Lol...My profile is not real...It's sarcastic. Most people get the joke.

Eskimo...You seem honest and your in your twenties

I think my point is becoming clear...

Yea I'm all for a woman taking care of me, but she wouldn't have to work and I'd provide for her. But this guy is either retarded, or trying very hard to be funny and failing.

I really don't see why you even bothered to post a profile at all on here. You obviously aren't serious about it, so why would you think any women really care about what you think about them. What a joke, grow up.

just read the profile........maybe hes joking??

Thank you.

You never know - hey - where's this bridge located?? lol!

The bridge is in Illinois...Car for lunch?

hopefully no where near me