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Topic: Just once !!!
Paul46's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:01 AM
you will find most people on here are for real, but helps to have a sense of humour too

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Wed 01/09/08 11:03 AM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Wed 01/09/08 11:04 AM
Dude, don't be so dang "serious". You will wind up like Hillary Clinton...aka Al Quita name.. Seldom Bin Laid! And that creates major stress! Just relax and lighten up! drinker bigsmile flowerforyou

randy912's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:06 AM
I am relaxed

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Wed 01/09/08 11:07 AM
huh laugh laugh

rockman888's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:08 AM
:smile: randy take some advice from someone who has been online looking and finding weman since 95..i have been to 740,000 diff chat rooms..i have over 420,000 friends...all you can do is have fun..online and take it one step at a time....friends ..first...lots of chatting..then ..phone...then meet in public place..then who knows from there..follow?

randy912's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:08 AM
THE END !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

itsmetina's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:08 AM
have you looked at your church

Rosebud2669's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:09 AM

On trying to find the love of their life , so many just make it a joke when some other like myself are really being serious


I know how you feel the guys are the same way! They say they are ready then once you get to know them better the more they don't want to.

Paul46's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:09 AM
well said Rockman888drinker

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Wed 01/09/08 11:10 AM

Dude, don't be so dang "serious". You will wind up like Hillary Clinton...aka Al Quita name.. Seldom Bin Laid! And that creates major stress! Just relax and lighten up! drinker bigsmile flowerforyou


He is right Randy just chill and the right one will come along.

My motto is I'm not Mr. Right but I'll do you until he comes along laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Now that was funny.

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Wed 01/09/08 11:12 AM


Dude, don't be so dang "serious". You will wind up like Hillary Clinton...aka Al Quita name.. Seldom Bin Laid! And that creates major stress! Just relax and lighten up! drinker bigsmile flowerforyou


He is right Randy just chill and the right one will come along.

My motto is I'm not Mr. Right but I'll do you until he comes along laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Now that was funny.


drinker drinker bigsmile laugh laugh drinker

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Wed 01/09/08 11:12 AM
Edited by Sumthingdifferent on Wed 01/09/08 11:13 AM
Accidental repost...servers have a hangover! Someone get black coffee..STAT! bigsmile drinker

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Wed 01/09/08 11:14 AM

Just once I wish some people would get real on here ...


As with every other "room" I came here just to kid around thinking, "Why would anyone come to a place like this to find love in a group of other obviously problem-inundated relationship-handicapped people?" It's like dealing with an alcoholism problem by going to a bar!

Like you I wished they would get real; now I think the problem might not have been theirs but rather my own jaded & cynical view. I've NEVER wanted to meet anyone on one of these sites. Now . . . we'll see.

However, if anyone sees me here with 10,000 posts and I'm no better off, do whatever is necessary to ban me from the site.

Also, if I start posting poetry, somebody please just shoot me!

Mossop's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:17 AM
Well I am serious and I think many others are also.......Problem is for most of us .....It don't come together !

CaRisLOVE's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:20 AM

You see , what gives most people away of not being real about what they are looking for , is that when you send them an email or friend request they add you as a friend but never look at your profile or never even reply to an IM or an email... not all are like that , but most are .. even with that said , I know I will find my love ..... Randy


im kinda use to it
its more like they dont see you as dat guy for them even if you show your worth to know
it does take some chemistry , but yea they should at least reply back and also stop responding and playin games if they not really interested

62easygoing's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:21 AM
You may have a point.laugh (But, I've found people on this site want fun more than anything else.)(A GREAT BUNCH OF PEOPLE: is what I have found)sincerelylaugh

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Wed 01/09/08 11:27 AM
I think there's a time to be serious and a time to sit back and have fun. Making people laugh really gets their attention. I get WAY more mail about the funny stuff than the well-thought-out hyperserious topics.

And if you can't get some amusement from the sheer inherent absurdity of the whole on-line dating process, then you might not be in the right place....

KeepingTheFaith's photo
Wed 01/09/08 11:31 AM
I have a great sense of humor, am serious about finding someone, and after a few mistakes am starting to "get" people.

What I have found, Randy, is that many people haven't taken the time to really KNOW what they want...they just bounce from relationship to relationship without resolving issues from the past.

Unfortunately, then those of us who really want to develop a solid, uplifting, satisfying relationship end up in that situation it is frustrating, painful, and disappointing. Knowing what you want, and what they want too, upfront can make the experience much better. As always, it comes down to good ole communication! flowerforyou

Happy Hunting!

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