i am a really sweet women whose looking for some one to talk to and get to know and i cant find any one im cute is their something wrong with me or them? why cant i find a good man
were can the big girls like me find a good man?

it might help if you posted a photo maybe? And don't get disheartened....good things come to those who wait. L

you know what size does not matter u will find the one for u there is nothing wrong with you.just give it time he will come along

try to get a pitcher on and posting is good

The fact you have not posted your picture means you are still keeping up your guard. Put yourself out there, let the world see you, and have fun

Who just said Size doesn't matter? You're a Female how could you say that? HMMMMM..

i agree

You can talk to me anytime. I am a nice honest person. Of course, if I was a liar, I guess I would lie about that. LOL

Seriously, if you need a shoulder, or a friend, get in touch.

No there is nothing wrong with YOU!

As for finding a good man, I am sure they are out there.

Where are they? Honey, if you find the answer to that question tell a Petite woman in the same situation.....

One thing to keep in mind, men have so many choices in big & petite women that the start may be slow.

Hang in there girl...........anything worth having is worth waiting for............:)

ok i guess i said something wrong sorry didn't mean to make it sound bad i was just saying what i feel

That was so sweet of you!!!

I consider myself one of those proverbial nice guys

( @ the lying about being a nice guy sentence...)





ok...now that thats out of the way.... i know what youre going through i have the same problem....big girls get the ****ty end of the deal...i actually made a post about it the other day called ' chubby chasers' .....if you surround yourself around women your size that feel confident about their size then youll start feeling confident about yours...ive noticed...that i started being more outgoing...more ..'loud' i guess you could say...but the more i got comfortable with myself and talking to strangers..the more i got asked out... ( i said no to all of them because they were ...married...old...psychos....freaks...or weirdos..oh wait and two inmates..)

It could be the "sweet" part. I've never thought that I was looking for a "sweet" girl or woman, but then again, I'm not a good man.

Best of luck. If you can't find someone here, or at least the realization that you can find someone somewhere, then you need to find a more desperate group (if you can).

Hang in there. Someone is waiting for you just like you are waiting for them. Go out and try to find something you enjoy doing in the inbetween time. Nothing is more attractive than someone having fun or shareing. Make an effort to make eye contact and engage people in lite conversation and you will be surprised how your social life will perk up. I can understand the hesitatiion to post a photo but you will help to put up at least an inviting icon of something you like rather than the unimaginative "blue" space. Best of luck.

you are a blue box.. how hot is that

lol

Hello and welcome to JSH, I hope you have a great time here...
It's soooo much fun!!!! Enjoy the forums...

welcome to the neighborhood get around and post.

was that exposed to make me feel better

for get the married ones and the psychos take one of the inmates at lest you know hes not cheating
well anyway i don't know were your from but were I'm from the big girls don't really stick together but thanks for the advice hope you find the guy your looking for