So sorry she hurt you and you're still feeling it. It takes time to heal - lots of time.

So sorry to hear about this, I just recently went through something similar but after awhile of constantly getting burned you will find out it gets easy to forget and just move on. sounds like you may have smothered her, just back off and don't act mopey around her and see if she just might not run back to you. If she is worth a damn she will!

Love this! she is soooo right! try to get your mind off it with something you like to do that hopefully won't remind you of her...Lots of women out there are like that, they'll wait till the man does something to piss her off, even if its something stupid like leaving the seat up, they'll blow it out of porportion say that "THAT"S IT I CAN"T DO THIS ANYMORE" **** and turn it around on the guy and make everything his fault so that they can leave the situation making the man look shallow....sorry to say it ladies but those women are out there......just keep an eye out for early warning signs next time hun and try not to get jaded from the experience, good women are out there that have the balls to tell it like it is....I have a hard time with it myself but still do it cause I know in the end it'll be easier on him as well as myself....good luck to you, I hope you can heal soon and look forward to something much more real and satisfying in the future......

Dude, be a guy, get a new Gf, take her to Vegas and do the nasty in the pool, but for God sake, quit crying about it.

I am a guy, no I'm not ready for another girlfriend, and no I'm not a player and don't plan on doing that kind of stuff untill I'm married. I'm a honest guy, a gentleman and a nice guy. Don't tell me to stop crying about it because you would have to be in my shoes and get messed up this bad to understand how bad it hurts...

Dude, life sucks, then it sucks some more, and then when thats all done it really sucks. Crying abou tit just makes it suck worse. Ok, Get a new gf, take her to Vegas and dont do the nasty in the pool, but either way. Sitting at home with a supersize box of clean-x isnt goign to help you get over her.

what do you do when you wreck your truck? You take it to the shop and see if it can be repaired.

What do you do when they tell you its unreparable? You move on and start shopping for a new truck.

Dude, your relationship is a total loss, its time to start shopping for a new one.

Crying about an x on a dating site isnt going to get you lots of offers, neither is acting like your pain is any worse than anybody else on here who has loved and loss.

Now act like a grown up, run upstairs, borrow your moms car keys and go shopping.

Yea I know my relationship is a total loss but believe it or not some of guys aren't like other guys... Yea I know crying over it doesn't do me any good but where she was basicly my twin in everything there isn't much I can do that don't remind me of her. And I'm not here to cry about it I was asking for peoples advice on this, I was curious to see what others would of done or what people would say about this. I got your input, you would just go find another girl... I've done the same before but this one was alot different. Like I said be in my same exact shoes, get your head all messed up, wear your heart on your shoulder, and pour your soul into a relationship then get cheated on and dumped... then come back and tell me how it feels, trust me you won't want to just go shopping again. I probably will a long time down the road but after the mental damage that was done I don't think I want to associate with anymore women right now. I know I'm not the only one thats been hurt ether, thats why I'm asking here... people are single they have had expierience and I just like to hear what others have done so that maybe I can heal myself....

Even though you're hurting now, sounds like you guys may be better suited as friends. I'm sorry you are hurting. And it's okay to cry, just cry and try to move past it. Time heals a lot.
Most everybody has at least one realy hurtful beakup in life.

if she really was the one for you then she NEVER would have let you go. it is hard to believe that sometimes it happens that they want you as much as you want them - and even harder when that mutual need happens to you. so you will be shocked one day. but yesterday was not the day for you. hard as it is, let her go and find the one she really needs. and you find another who really needs you and turns you back on.

there are so many many beautiful, caring, exceptional women. many many of them here. she is only one mouse click away my friend.