Topic: advice?
coryM18's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:05 PM
i dont seem to be attracting any ladies why is that? i know one big reason is that i dont have a pic, but i am trying to fix that, but are there any other reasons like, maybe i havent included something important in my blog or maybe i put something in there i shouldnt? any advice is welcome

thanks in advance
-Cory

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:06 PM
Work on a photo.........face with the name

beaporwoll's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:06 PM
Patience grasshopper.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:09 PM
I think alot of people are here just to chat, also in my case there are not too many women on this site from Massachusetts!!

azrae1l's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:09 PM
yeah get rid of everything you said in your profile and start over.


no woman cares how god you are in a fight and how many times you got your nose broken. they want to hear i'm intelligent with a sense of humor, sensitive and caring..... blah blah blah. not i'm a bad ass.....

lilith401's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:12 PM

yeah get rid of everything you said in your profile and start over.


no woman cares how god you are in a fight and how many times you got your nose broken. they want to hear i'm intelligent with a sense of humor, sensitive and caring..... blah blah blah. not i'm a bad ass.....


Cory, I have to agree here. I think yor focus in your profile talks too much about what you do not like and do not want. You have a cae of what I call "TMI Syndrome"... Too Much Information.

What you want here is to sell yourself. Not focus on things that really aren't so glamorous. Of course, none of us are perfect, but if you don't talk yourself up in your profile who else will?

Good luck to you.... Oh and a pic is not optional, btw.

johncarl's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:16 PM
i don't know why:smile:

gracekelley's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:17 PM
I'd say getting the photo up will help

gracekelley's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:18 PM


yeah get rid of everything you said in your profile and start over.


no woman cares how god you are in a fight and how many times you got your nose broken. they want to hear i'm intelligent with a sense of humor, sensitive and caring..... blah blah blah. not i'm a bad ass.....


Cory, I have to agree here. I think yor focus in your profile talks too much about what you do not like and do not want. You have a cae of what I call "TMI Syndrome"... Too Much Information.

What you want here is to sell yourself. Not focus on things that really aren't so glamorous. Of course, none of us are perfect, but if you don't talk yourself up in your profile who else will?

Good luck to you.... Oh and a pic is not optional, btw.


I also agree with this!!!

coryM18's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:19 PM
ok, so besides the photo what else? (yes, i changed my profile)

LLH5's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:22 PM
You may want to delete the fighting out of the profile. Maybe the parent stuff also.

I think you've been honest in it, that I like!flowerforyou




lilith401's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:23 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 01/08/08 03:24 PM

ok, so besides the photo what else? (yes, i changed my profile)


It appears you made changes, but did not take Azreal's advice to start over. You really need to write for the reader here. Look at other profiles for some ideas... male and female.

LLH5's photo
Tue 01/08/08 03:53 PM
You have an incomplete sentence.

"and i dont like it. other than that i'm very i have 2 dogs and a cat."

I think the profile is getting better.