Wow.... this is a tough question. So many come to mind.


There was a guy I met to play pool with after chatting onlie for weeks. We arrived seperately and he walked right by me and went to a table... waited 10 minutes and then called my phone. From across the room. Despite talking to him prior to the date and telling him what I had on (and he saw me on my cam that same night) he said he was not sure if it was me and was shy. He was at least 80-100 heavier than his photos and was wearing jean shorts, teva sandals, and a browns hat. It was February. He proceeded to get extremely drunk and bit me on the neck while I was trying to shoot. This was suddently, with no provocation or flirting in any way.

I was bruised for weeks! He profusely apologized and I ended the date. He asked me for a ride because he had a DUI (shocker)and had no driving priviledges. He lived with his parents. I did agree to drive him home, and still not sure why to this day.

In the car he says, "Wow, I'm having so much fun. I don't want this to end.... Want to go get a cup of coffee?" I tell him I'm quite ready to end it, but agree he needs coffee. Upon pulling into the driveway of his parents he leans over and says, "Want to come in? It'll only take a minute."

Not being able to resist, I say, "Oh, is that all it would take? A minute? No thanks, I think I'll pass".

There was no second date, but I did get an apology and an admission of pretty bad social anxiety and alcoholism. The bruising on my neck was well-hidden by turtlenecks- thank goodness for Ohio winters.

When I was a teen I went to a drive-in with a guy. I only really had friendly feelings, with him so I brought a girlfriend with me. When I wouldn't kiss him and explained he was sweet we were better as friends, he starting burning himseld with a cigarette. My friend was so freaked out she called her parents to come get us.

LMAO! You can say that again, Michael!