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Topic: would you date someone who had an STD?
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Mon 01/07/08 09:03 PM

first of all i meant in no way to offend any one, if i have offended you im sorry it was not my intention, i can see some people have strong opinions on this topic so i will just leave this be before this turns ugly, thank you all for your input on this topic.

Some people on here get rough,don't tote their critical opinion of your opinions,and you can post as much as you want as long as it is not offensive or unwarranted rudeness,our moderator sees to this so keep posting what you want when you want and welcome to just say hi,goodnightflowerforyou

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Mon 01/07/08 09:17 PM
Edited by Babcat on Mon 01/07/08 09:20 PM
Well, here it's from the CDC. I am a regular smart azz, but I thought that I would offer a refresher course, courtesy of the CDC. Kind of depressing...

Common STDs: (Seven Topless Dames)

Chlamydia (it can make a female infertile and cause PID)
Genital herpes (not curable, and can pass w/out breakout) You do not want to get these!
Genital warts (careful, condoms don't always stop 'em) They usually go away, but sometime need tx.
Gonorrhea (antibiotics, can cause major problems if left untreated)
Hepatitis A & B (you may turn yellow, get a high fever, and barf a lot)
Syphilis (just gross, but treatable)

... and not to forget HIV/AIDs (still not curable!)

From what I read, most are treatable such as Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Warts, and Syphilis. Hepatitis A and B are treatable (and there is a vaccination for both) and can be risky, and complications from B can be ongoing; but Hep A usually clears on its own. Hep C is transmitted blood to blood only, so it's not on the list as STD, but many clinics treat it and if you are sharing needles or cocaine straws, or rubbing bloody cuts together (LoL), then you are high risk for Hep. C.

I hope I did not bum everyone out! During college I interned for a HIV non-profit, so I remember some of this stuff.

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Mon 01/07/08 09:38 PM
Edited by sabxisrad on Mon 01/07/08 09:39 PM
what we really need is better education on stds and safe sex programs put into schools. maybe then there'd be less teen pregnancy and less std cases.


my honest opinion: again if you're going to JUDGE someone & tell them to basically eff off just because they have an std- then that's IGNORANT. everyone makes mistakes. and at least give them a shot- if they're honest to tell you up front about the std then give them one chance. dismiss them for oher things- not just cos they have an std.

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Mon 01/07/08 09:46 PM
thank you for editing thatflowerforyou this thread was to ask an opinion and we all gave it...some dont like others opinions but we are not all the same....all im saying is yes people make mistakes but dont we all...but do we have to deal with their mistakes and make them our own..lets not all jump on the bandwagon and date someone with an std cause they messed up and you feel sorry for them cause they made a mistake...disease is on the rise and with thoughts and feelings that its okay scares me.....all im saying is educate

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Mon 01/07/08 09:58 PM
i agree. i would but it depends on the std as well. you just have to be safe (and honest of course) otherwise.


very few people are as honest as they should be. quite a few people also never get tested.

some info that every woman should read, or know already

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hpv

According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), by the age of 50 more than 80% of American women will have contracted at least one strain of genital HPV. All women are encouraged to get a yearly pap smear solely to detect cellular abnormalities caused by HPV


Once cells are invaded by HPV, a latency (quiet) period of months to years may occur. The latency period just means the HPV virus is in an incubation period. Having sex with a partner whose HPV infection is in the incubation period still leaves you vulnerable to becoming infected yourself. HPV virus can last from 3 months to 2 years without a symptom. That means sometimes an infectee cannot track down the source of infection




at one point i believe i also read something about how they think hpv can also be found under the fingernails of males, fun huh?

and that's just hpv, there are tons of other diseases and crap that are out there. it's a scary dirty world out there

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