Just remember that when people want something illigitimatly they build a false pyramid of trust. Just step back,wave with a smile and remember that you can be there when they fall. Pain and suffering are horrible things but people are willing to pay a high price to see it and you can have a front row seat.

I have no problem chatting with either sex, whether I was in a relationship or not. jUST BECAUSE she is chatting to a male doesnt mean she is having sex or cyber with him....geeeeeeeeez!!!

gypsy,

I beg to differ....if your in a chat room .....24/7.....and your on at 3 , 4 5 in the AM....your not looking for recipes!!!!!!!

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i dont know if she said she would not go into chatroom... but if she did say that then it is wrong... why she is up all night is beyond me..... does she work days? or maybe they are her nights off? i dunno i couldnt stay up all night if it was my day off i think it sounds a little controlling if it were your idea especially since u never even met her... as far as your money for the airline tickets... doesnt matter how long u talked online u really dont know a person till u meet them in person and are around them for a while... anyone can be anybody they want to be hiding behind the computer screen...... so its no different than u sending me some airline tickets.... please feel free to do so joking..<doubt u would get them back> worth a try i guess but maybe she can turn them in for money i dont know... but really just my opionion.... u asked for peoples opionions...

Yay for Buttons!!!!!!

ps... u paid for the tickets why not still meet her anyway???? and go from there? hate to see the tickets go to waste....also why not make a different screenname if u wonder so much and go in the chatroom? who knows she could be iming guys about you and how sweet u are!!! maybe not though ya never know....she could just sound flirty to you... maybe she talked to those guys and gals for a long time..

well that advice you gave...did that done that...gone into the chatroom as another ID....I saw what I saw though....she's go into private IM/PM with other guys....she would open her cam for other guys to see what she looked like....and yes....she did say she would not stray and or do that....I guess my need to go into chat is zilch....do not need it....I believe she is just one of those " I need attention " people...I guess since I broke it off she can do whatever she wants with the tickets...they are non refundable anyhow....

Ahhh, Tommie, reality can sometimes suck.

Take a breath and a step back. If you have not met, how can you be exclusive?

If you don't want to meet her now, the money you spent is a lesson well learned. An expensive lesson, but a good one. Wait the next time before you meet someone face to face before giving your heart away.

M

Michele,

No I don't want to meet her now....not even....As far as being exclusive....not my idea....but did not see a problem with it...anyhow...I feel good...and yes it was money well spent....but an expensive lesson for sure....I always say...everything happens for a reason.....

Tom