I just viewed my daughter's myspace. She left a message on her best friend's mother's myspace, "I love you, Mom! Happy New Year."

The message she left on mine? Well.........hmmmmm....oh yeah, that would be NONE!

Petty, I know, but that hurt(s) my feelings!

DO NOT DISTURB! (I'm on the pity pot!)

Well, I know it sounds weird, but, a lot of the time, teenagers feel closer to people that are outside of their family.

Don't feel too bad. When she gets older, she'll realize, yet again, that you are her family, and she'll come back. Trust me, it's kinda like a subconsious rebellion. I went through it (still am, but, I'm being weened off. LOL)

Hey Sis, typical teenagers.....don't let it get you ... She will wake up one of these days just as we did-took awhile though...

**sniff, sniff**

Thanks, guys............

You know..............I now know what my Mom meant by, "I hope some day you have a daughter just like you!"

Did she have to be JUST like me???

Obviously, she (my daughter) is still too young to know that it is all about me!

(although, come to think about it.........I've told her enough times!)

It will sink in one of these days, just remember we have been there before!!! She will be fine....you finally turned out pretty well now didn't you!!!

((((Whisper)))))

I'm not even allowed to post a comment on my daughter's page! LOL And her post on mine??? *throws head back and laughs wildly* Yeah.. like THAT would ever happen!

Yeah, I did. But then I'm 50! I don't want to be dead when she finally realizes I'm an OK person!

I used to HATE my stepdad...

But now that I am older I realize he is why I am the way I am....

He showed me the tough love I needed at the time.

aaaawww...I want my little girls to stay little forever Right now I am their favorite

Oh Whispers, it's tough. I think she probably didn't leave a message on yours because she assumed you already knew and that saying it wasn't necessary. Kids, they don't yet get that it is necessary You're her mom, she loves you and knows you love her.

OK, so you're saying it's not all about me?? I SO appreciate knowing it's not just my daughter....and NOT me!

aaaawww...I want my little girls to stay little foreversad sad sad Right now I am their favorite

Lap it up, girl!!! Put rocks on their heads so they won't outgrow that!!!

I used to HATE my stepdad...

But now that I am older I realize he is why I am the way I am....

He showed me the tough love I needed at the time.

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That's so sweet, klugman. How can I get your comment forwarded to him so he'll know that came from your own little fingers?


Oh Whispers, it's tough. I think she probably didn't leave a message on yours because she assumed you already knew and that saying it wasn't necessary. Kids, they don't yet get that it is necessary flowerforyou flowerforyou You're her mom, she loves you and knows you love her.

Good point. Never thought about it that way. ((((Suz)))))

Don't sweat it.I f it hurt you,So sorry,That must be tough.
You might try sending her a mess.saying you love her.Bet ya get one back.And maybe even a hug.
Just a thought.

The more mature SHE gets, the smarter YOU will appear! Make no mistake...........she loves you. The friend's mom is not the disciplinarian, she's the "fun" one....... Hang in there!

You should post an I love you comment on her friends page J/K