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Topic: Understanding women...sex but end of relationship... Your vi
bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:11 AM
i'll make dinner....it might be a bit late, say like 3am, but in the end, you'll be filled....

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:18 AM
come on babes...dinner time

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Sun 01/06/08 10:20 AM
noway

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:22 AM
lets see, a good pot roast and taters and carrots and some wine and bread and later into my grotto and i'm sure there won't be any regrets later, or oprah

texasrose9's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:41 AM
If things were going that well, and after she withdraws that way.....I'm sorry....I think you two didn't click sexually. I've had that happen before....... and it is possible she is harboring feelings for someone else and was dipping her toes into dating to get over it.....then realized she is not as ready as she thought.......

gracekelley's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:41 AM

Are you sure the guy didn't really suck at sex?????


This is the only thing I can think of

aLittleBird's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:42 AM

i'll make dinner....it might be a bit late, say like 3am, but in the end, you'll be filled....



yes, but will I be satisfied?????

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:43 AM
ther would be no doubt babe,......satisfaction is our goal here

aLittleBird's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:46 AM

ther would be no doubt babe,......satisfaction is our goal here


ok, let's forget food, you just come over, we'll have meaningless sex then take a long shower. Then you can go on Oprah and tell the world how cheap you feel.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:47 AM
ohhhhhhh, i love being used...but i will hold out for the gay blonde...oh, whats her dyke...you get the idea

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Mon 01/07/08 04:34 AM
I agree with the people who think that the dude sucked in bed. That's what it sounded like to me.

Either that, or he was just mediocre. If he rocked her world in the sack, she would be putty in his hands!

Always strive for excellence - sex is no exception.

Deana64's photo
Fri 01/11/08 10:42 AM


ther would be no doubt babe,......satisfaction is our goal here


ok, let's forget food, you just come over, we'll have meaningless sex then take a long shower. Then you can go on Oprah and tell the world how cheap you feel.


let me know when that Oprah show airs I wanna see it laugh

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Fri 01/11/08 01:47 PM

I recieved the following in an email from a friend/brother on another site and just wondered what others would think or advice to give.



I don't claim to understand women....but this one puzzles me. I met her online. She is really really a nice, cute, and sweet person. We have an amazingly amount of things in common including where we live, how we live, and what we want. There was NEVER any pressure to do anything. First date was dinner and a drive, all went nice...just a small hug and light kiss. Second date was out for some activities just to get to know each other, grab a beer and a sandwich, then to my place for a movie. She spent the night, we cuddled but no sex. Third date...I delivered dinner to her house, helped her put a few things together she had gotten for Christmas.... a little snuggling. She anticipated my kisses with openness. After a little romance she pulls the cutains closed as she was extremely hot and anxious. She led me to the bedroom. In no way did I ever pressure her for sex. Actually, by the time I was ready to give it to her she was practically begging... Afterwards she spent a very long time in the shower. Tho' she was very nice she seemed distant. Since then she broke the date which she had made with me. I had to encourage her to just be friends and not avoid me because I'm not about to burn that bridge. I don't know what her problem is or if there is one. I just know that she went from extremely hot to wanting to not date and being apprehensive about dating...just wants time. She says she doesn't want to get into casual sex, but after 3 dates and getting to know each other quite well I do not call it casual. For me it was the beginning of a very comfortable relationship...I just don't know, I'm somewhere between puzzled and confused, not hurt but trying to be very understanding since my last relationship ended with me devastated. I certainly do not want to be hurt again and don't want to see anyone hurt... but What's the deal? I've had similar experiences. I know she has feelings for me but surely the sex was not so bad that she ran from me.... the only thing I may have done wrong was to insist on a condom....as much as I hate those things I want to use one until I know I'm the one and only and prefer to see a health certificate.... So...somebody tell me what's going on in her mind? Did my use of a condom make her feel that she is dirty or that I don't trust her?





From the sounds of it and believe me I lived with one like this for years, they may have been some tramatic thing(s) happen to her in her past, i.e. abuse, possibly raped. It is not you but is men in general and she not trust them. My ex was this way, when and if there was relations when finished she would head directly to the show and then striaght to bed with out a single word. When asked she would say nothing I am tiered or something like that. Well long story short we grew apart and now are seperated with no hope of fixing it. If you are friends with this woman and are still talking do not push the issue cause it will drive her away. Mine has some other issues as well that I am not going to talk about but they where caused by the trama she went through. Be her friend if you can stand by her as long as she will let you.

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