Never would relocate I love my family too much. Maybe once my grandpa and mother have passed on I would. For now I might move, but I would stay local to at least be able to be with them.

ID HAVE A VERY HARD TIME RELOCATING. IVE BEEN AT MY JOB 20+YRS
AND MY KIDS ARE HERE PLUS MY MOM IS OLDER AND I NEED TO BE AROUND 4 HER TOO. SO UNLESS I COULD TAKE MY KIDS,MOM AND MY SENIORITY WITH ME, ITD BE TOUGH

I don't beleive I could relocate right now anyway. My girls are 13-14 and so I am waiting for them to get out on their own before I pursue anything outside my area.

Yes i have thought about relocating. And it would be tough cuz all my family is here and i like my job. But, for true love i would do it. Im sure in the beginning it would be tough but you will never get what you really want unless you overcome some obstacles. I guess for certain ppl this might not be an option, but i would be willing to do it if thats what it took to be with someone i am truly in love with.

I would love to fall so deeply for someone that I had an excuse to pack up and leave this godforsaken place I live in. But I also know that forming a relationship like from a distance, wouldnt happen for me. I have 2 kids and Ive been through too much, I wouldnt be slighted by the idea that what I have through email/phone is enough to uproot me and my kids for. A good solid year in the same place, seeing eachother on a regular basis, maybe.

Some of us can't relocate for a variety of reasons, but, it's also easier for a man to relocate if he's not raising a child or children alone. Still, beware. I've heard of stories from men, who moved to be with a woman, only to be tricked and have their hearts broken.

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Easy folks it was just a question i asked because i wanted to see how a woman would feel about moving due to my inability to do so. so, no need for drama, save it

Sorry I missed leahmarie's remarks. I was just expressing my thoughts that if the feelings are deep enough, you will sacrifice anything to be together. You just need to be sure. The lady is totally right, an affair is never correct. I make no attempt to justify. I totally respect her opinion & thank her for making that point.

Differences of opinion, are what conversation is all about.
Just need to do it politely.

Thanks for the chance to clarify.

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dunno about relocating what if it didnt work out and your in a strange city or country? big dicision has to be someone pretty special for me to move

I would relocate for LOVE. Yes, I have family here, but I do live my own life and they understand. Plus an't that what phones are for???

When your soul see the soul of another and the earth moves,,,, Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh myyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy,, yes my soul has seen the soul of another and I moved,,, Life is incredible and to spend it with the one who makes the earth move under your feet,,, Priceless,,,,,,

I might...but then I might not. Depends on a lot of different things...and the person I meet...