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I don't think it is necessary to comment about others looks, if you don't find them attractive stay clear of them, or if they mail you let them know that they are not your type or whatever. On the threads we should be adults. Commenting that another is ugly or unattractive is something that was done in middle school. JMO well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know I hate those threads, really, who would say without knowing another person they would have sex with them, but that is just me. Off subject there a bit, if there was someone above me that I would not have made a positive comment to then I would just leave the thread alone until someone comes up that I would want to comment on. Those threads are sucky to me anyway. I would not say I would have sex with anyone without knowing them so I don't go in those threads, same with the oral sex, take shower, etc..........but that is just me. honestly i wouldnt either.. its not how i choose who i would have sex with but it just goes off of what ur first see like i mean for me is do i see that person attractive enough |
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I don't think it is necessary to comment about others looks, if you don't find them attractive stay clear of them, or if they mail you let them know that they are not your type or whatever. On the threads we should be adults. Commenting that another is ugly or unattractive is something that was done in middle school. JMO well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know I hate those threads, really, who would say without knowing another person they would have sex with them, but that is just me. Off subject there a bit, if there was someone above me that I would not have made a positive comment to then I would just leave the thread alone until someone comes up that I would want to comment on. Those threads are sucky to me anyway. I would not say I would have sex with anyone without knowing them so I don't go in those threads, same with the oral sex, take shower, etc..........but that is just me. You talking dirty 
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I don't think it is necessary to comment about others looks, if you don't find them attractive stay clear of them, or if they mail you let them know that they are not your type or whatever. On the threads we should be adults. Commenting that another is ugly or unattractive is something that was done in middle school. JMO well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know I hate those threads, really, who would say without knowing another person they would have sex with them, but that is just me. Off subject there a bit, if there was someone above me that I would not have made a positive comment to then I would just leave the thread alone until someone comes up that I would want to comment on. Those threads are sucky to me anyway. I would not say I would have sex with anyone without knowing them so I don't go in those threads, same with the oral sex, take shower, etc..........but that is just me. You talking dirty
I have been known to but not in those threads....lol
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I don't think it is necessary to comment about others looks, if you don't find them attractive stay clear of them, or if they mail you let them know that they are not your type or whatever. On the threads we should be adults. Commenting that another is ugly or unattractive is something that was done in middle school. JMO well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know I hate those threads, really, who would say without knowing another person they would have sex with them, but that is just me. Off subject there a bit, if there was someone above me that I would not have made a positive comment to then I would just leave the thread alone until someone comes up that I would want to comment on. Those threads are sucky to me anyway. I would not say I would have sex with anyone without knowing them so I don't go in those threads, same with the oral sex, take shower, etc..........but that is just me. honestly i wouldnt either.. its not how i choose who i would have sex with but it just goes off of what ur first see like i mean for me is do i see that person attractive enough I understand what you are saying. |
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I don't think it is necessary to comment about others looks, if you don't find them attractive stay clear of them, or if they mail you let them know that they are not your type or whatever. On the threads we should be adults. Commenting that another is ugly or unattractive is something that was done in middle school. JMO well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know I hate those threads, really, who would say without knowing another person they would have sex with them, but that is just me. Off subject there a bit, if there was someone above me that I would not have made a positive comment to then I would just leave the thread alone until someone comes up that I would want to comment on. Those threads are sucky to me anyway. I would not say I would have sex with anyone without knowing them so I don't go in those threads, same with the oral sex, take shower, etc..........but that is just me. honestly i wouldnt either.. its not how i choose who i would have sex with but it just goes off of what ur first see like i mean for me is do i see that person attractive enough  @ Purple
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How would you like it if someone said that to you!!!!!!!!! It would not feel so good would it, I think you can say I'm not interested would be a lot nicer.
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Edited by
angelwings1020
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Sun 01/06/08 02:13 AM
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People are easily offended. And I do have to agree with you. As long as you arent being right out rude or mean, then they should just take it as is. Just because your not pretty,, hansome, or smart enough for someone's liking, doesnt mean everybody thinks that. Thats the point in this site. To find someone who you are attracted to and you like for your own personal reasons. Not theirs. VERY WELL STATED |
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How would you like it if someone said that to you!!!!!!!!! It would not feel so good would it, I think you can say I'm not interested would be a lot nicer.
You can't please everyone all the time, and even when you are very nice about it. There is always going to be one that takes it the wrong way... |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 01/06/08 02:50 AM
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I'm not nice.
And I dont care... what you read is what you get, you want umm slick platitudes, then skim over my posts, because I believe that being authentic is more important than attempting to 'suck' someone in with the 'Make Nice' crap. I'm not nice, never have been. But straight up? Always. I try to be mindful of the posters around me, but this 'if you can't say anything nice, say nothing', is so much soft shoe shuffle to me. I'm not like that in person, why pretend to be it online? 
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I'm not nice. And I dont care... what you read is what you get, you want umm slick platitudes, then skim over my posts, because I believe that being authentic is more important than attempting to 'suck' someone in with the 'Make Nice' crap. I'm not nice, never have been. But straight up? Always. I try to be mindful of the posters around me, but this 'if you can't say anything nice, say nothing', is so much soft shoe shuffle to me. I'm not like that in person, why pretend to be it online?
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i usually leave those threads alone
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I rather be politely honest than a patronizer.
En I have had guys be politely honest en I APPRECIATE IT! |
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Ok theres nothing wrong with being positive and stuff but why cant we be honest around here without offending people... i mean seriously if i dont think your pretty or cute i should be able to admit that without being thought of as a ***** ya know. Chill out people its just a site and i bet half of us arent always what we are made out to be in the threads. WEll what are you afraid of...you dont even have a pic of you on here... |
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well for instance the sex and dating forum it asks would you have sex with the person above ok lets say i say no i dont want to get rude messages in my inbox ya know just take it as it is... im not gonna say yes to be friendly then that would be pointless to post in that thread ya know And yet I think that's what happens in there, more often than not, and that's the main reason I see those threads as completely pointless. They're not honest. Me, I'm not doing ANYTHING with ANYBODY I don't know. And I'm not about to pretend I would, just to stroke the ego of someone 3781 miles away who I will never even meet in real life. It's like the "Rate Me" threads where everybody gives everybody else a 10 or above. You might see a 9 if someone hits the wrong key. I stay out of those threads. The temptation to be honest is a little overwhelming sometimes! |
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