Topic: rose on first date or not?
cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:02 PM


my personal opinion is it is a good idea, but I feel like it may give out a hint of desperation.

What is so desperate about giving a lady a rose when picking her up for a date? Its not as if by buying her a rose you think she should automatically jump in bed with you is it?

you mean your not supposed to boink for a rose?**** I got 4 dozen pressed in a book..laugh

daniel48706's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:02 PM

as long as it's not plastic or wrapped i celophaneflowerforyou


What about a chocolate rose?

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Sat 01/05/08 02:03 PM
what about a white chocolate easter bunny???laugh

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:04 PM
whats about you skip the rose and the date and just go for the good part...bigsmile

daniel48706's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:06 PM

whats about you skip the rose and the date and just go for the good part...bigsmile


Wheres the fun in that? I happen to like the tense feeling of wondering wether or not I am going to get a goodnight kiss that night or not:wink:

EveningKiss's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:08 PM
I will take a singl rose every time.

Better then one guy whom bought me an expensive box of chocolates with perfume.

A Rose is simple and sweet. Anything else can be a little intimidating.



cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:09 PM


whats about you skip the rose and the date and just go for the good part...bigsmile


Wheres the fun in that? I happen to like the tense feeling of wondering wether or not I am going to get a goodnight kiss that night or not:wink:

i abhor tension.lets just f@#$k and then you can leave the flower on your pillow when you leave..drinker

daniel48706's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:10 PM



whats about you skip the rose and the date and just go for the good part...bigsmile


Wheres the fun in that? I happen to like the tense feeling of wondering wether or not I am going to get a goodnight kiss that night or not:wink:

i abhor tension.lets just f@#$k and then you can leave the flower on your pillow when you leave..drinker


If it gets to the point that I am in her bedroom? I am not leaving, lol bigsmile

BlueskyJ's photo
Sat 01/05/08 02:16 PM
I used to give a gift on my first date....until I realized that usually its the only date I have with that person....I say save the time energy money for the 3rd date....at least by then you can assume its more than just a meeting....

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Sat 01/05/08 02:17 PM


as long as it's not plastic or wrapped i celophaneflowerforyou


What about a chocolate rose?

chocolate anything and you're in laugh :tongue: laugh

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Sat 01/05/08 03:26 PM
if u give a gift to a person you have not already made a significant connection with (like a first date person, for example), you will make them feel a lot better about THEMSELVES (which is why all the women are saying yes yes do it do it) but it will actually make her lose respect for you, whether she knows it or not.

You will be demonstrating that you are "easy" and therefore less of a man, or however you wanna phrase it. You WILL come off as desperate - I don't care who says otherwise.

It's like a woman who gives up sex too easily. It's a really exciting proposition at first so youre all like YES YES ITS GREAT IF A WOMAN GIVE UP SEX EARLIER... but after you get it early, you lose a little respect for her. It's the same thing the other way around, except replace sex with gifts and resources.

LLH5's photo
Sat 01/05/08 03:28 PM
How about a different kind of flower, roses are common. What about a beautiful white lilly.

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Sat 01/05/08 05:52 PM
what about a plastic chocolate easter bunny head??huh

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Sat 01/05/08 05:53 PM
No.

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Sat 01/05/08 05:54 PM
I think a rose on the first date is very sweet and appropriate. flowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/08 05:54 PM
yesbigsmile

ColorfulSmiles's photo
Sat 01/05/08 05:55 PM
I think that is so romatic and sweet...
GO FOR THE ROSE!happy

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Sat 01/05/08 05:57 PM
how about a pair of slippers???

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/05/08 05:59 PM
roses are the flowers of the Gods .. definitely flowerforyou

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Sat 01/05/08 06:02 PM
Gypsy..you are so funny. laugh laugh