I start by reading profiles , just to get to know a person...that is if they bothered to fill it in.
Some models just give out fake phone numbers , which makes it hard to maintain the gentleman facade!

honestly ppl not reading thru has become more of a speed dating kinda where you see what sticks to the wall and move on if it doesnt.

I think everyone's answer will be different. But for me, if the messages are generic (not tailored for me specifically) or not much thought was put into them, I'm not interested. I like a man who has the gift of gab, as long as he knows how to balance talking about himself with asking questions to show an interest in learning about me.

Its hard to read blank profiles ....and there is plenty of those around....and its annoying....But I try very hard to gather information from the profile to see what the poster is all about......and then I actually go by the sexy pictures ha ha !!!

DM

I'm new to this Digital world platform as I've been living off grid for 22+years. Returned to main stream civilian and find it extremely comical in that individuals from no particular groupings walking into objects, ponds, traffic ect...all obsessed with a hand held communications device .so super silly.why and when did communicating face to by chance face those random encounters be it while passing by on the sidewalk or department stores, chances of making new friends from strangers in-person is the most time effective method for dating. you're town has a wealth of friends/dates that you haven't meet yet because of that hand held communication box is absorbing all. of your efforts. And just listen to yourselves still bickering about (wasting more time on communicating on a communications device that doesn't seem to be doing much communicating. On top of that you are paying dearly monthly payments to a service that is anything but customer service oriented.So thank you for reading this waste of my time AND get out there get a DATE the old fashioned way
..DRUNK and in A BAR!