well i still want to knock my mom in the head for about 3 or 4 or hell
was it 10 differant guys?

Ya got that T for in the end they are the ones that will be there for
you if your there when they need you lol

i feel for ya sherrie. sadly my sister is going that way. 4 kids 4
fathers.

i think i have anger probs with my mom..LOL so it sounds...* smacks self
in face NO NO NO!*

one kid one father...LOL most of my friends same age or younger have 3
or 4 kids by differnt dads... i dont think they have igured out what
cause it yet.. maybe they will learn?

its our society's curse that the young confuse love with sex. damn tv

Ohhhhhhh Sherrie now I did date but I had this little rule of mine I
followed well and never changed it lol I dated the guy for at least 2
months before he was allowed to meet my kids for if they last that long
then you have past that hump lol for most times if you dont get along
they are gone within the first couple of dates.

But noone lived with me while my kids were growing up stayed once in a
while but never had there stufff at my house for my kids had a dad and
if he chose not to be in there life that was his fault I did not want a
step parent been there done that and it was not the sweetest.

Hell I did get lucky persay I dated one guy 12 years but I told him
right off the bat the way it had to be and he agreed so life was not all
that bad lol I did have someone to talk to and help me along and my kids
got along with him great lol

I LIVE TO STILL TRY AND GIVE THEM FUN AND SILLY AND LOVING

PICTURES TO HAVE OF ME IN THEIR MINDS SO THAT THERE REFLECTIONS

WITH THEIRS WILL ALWAYS REFLECT ME, TO THEM..

THEN AFTER IM GONE THEY CAN FALL DOWN, BUMP INTO SOMETHING

PRETEND TO GET A BODY PART STUCK IN THE DOOR, AND EVERYTIME

IN THEIR MINDS ---DAD AND I'LL BE STILL IN THEIR LIVES...

OK, DAMM IT IM STOPPING.......LOL

i belive so... but for me ...lol there was no love... just the needed to
get laid..LOL... and the BD didn't work..lol


but was all worth it and i would do it all over again!!!!!
most people think if i could that i would should make it later in
life... * 15 when i got prego* if i could go back in time i would do it
all over again.. he is my life and i wouldn't trade him for the world!

i think i'll steal that idea txs. words of wisdom again

well TX mine is 4 to 6 mths.. maybe going a lil over board???... i
dunno... but seeing what my son when threw with the guys my mom brought
in and out of the house and then BAMB they were gone.. i want to make
sure *IT* is there.

Awwww but T just think of the memories you have created for them they
will some day look back and smile about it and laugh there ass off for
all the silly things nothing like bringing a smile to there face after
we are gone the good memories become a treasure in our hearts of the
ones that are no longer with us

SMILES :)

same here sherrie no regrets no matter how much the mother's a drunken
fuckup. dont tell my daughter i said that

SHERRIE when it comes to the safty of your kids nothing is going
overboard!!!

THE75, JUST REMEMBER EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON....

THE75, JUST REMEMBER EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON....

LOL yeah my sons dad really has nothing to do with him other than sends
money and thatis cause his mother and dad drives him crazy about it...
his parents are the best tho! just wish i could knock some sence into
him.. but ater 3 1/2 years.. well i gave up. and i will be MOM and DAD
to my son with the help of my father. His dad will relize he missed
everything later and i hope it hits soon!

i know iam. just sux that she chose booze over a family

Damn now I sound like parent 101 class has started lol

Anywho just love them all you can.


Hey my kids got Easter baskets till they were 20 lol and still get
stockings stuffed and Valentines gifts from me but funny cause my kids
on those days never forget them my son is a regular little casanova on
Valentines with the one he is with and soooo I feel like I did it right
by always makeing a big deal on those days lol


Humm now I have a 4 yr old granddaughter by my son to spoil lol

Sherrie u be alright!