So if a man decides he wants to propose it would mean a woman has to tell him everything he wants/demands to know???

No offense, but what century are you living in?

Him deciding to propose does not suddenly make the woman subservient. It does not give him the right to demand anything.

And what I'm missing in the picture you paint: where and when does the man tell the woman about his history?
Why he divorced, how long he's been single, how many women he had sex with over the years, how often he dated and so on.

I as a woman find that important to know.
I don't want a man who's a relationship-hopper, or who's had a gazillion one night stands, nor a serial-dater. Also not interested in a man who's never been married.

Where's the part in your picture where the man opens up about his past dating/relationship behaviour?

Or do you think it's okay for a woman to have to tell him intimate stuff and marry him without knowing what he's been doing?

The thought that a woman has to justify how many different (sex) partners she's had is really extremely old-fashioned!

I as a woman don't want a man-wh*re nor a commitment-phobe.

Get with the times. It's 2025, not 1725!