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Is a relationship doomed to crash and burn if a couple move in together after knowing each other for 3 weeks?
I'm FINALLY moving out of my mom and dads house. It's just gonna be me and my older brother. He's been going out with this girl for about ummmm....I dunno 3 weeks close to a month now. He insist on letting her move in, but I try to tell'em to give the relationship time to grow. But, being the younger sibling he doesn't care. I'm wondering poeple. |
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Be ready to pay more of the rent-it might be a fluke and they work out but in all reality-I don't see it happening.
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the only way to find out is to give it a try i guess...however, usually the things that you love about the person in the beginning usually turn into the things you hate about them after a while...just fyi from an old lady
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They only thing I want is for my older brother to be happy. He's been through alot growing up. We both did. But, on the other hand. I don't want this to bite us in they ass.
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as my brother always says...3 months...after that its one way or the other....
I wouldn't move in with anyone in 3 weeks... I did it after 11 months and it didn't work well.... I agree with Urg...start saving the cash for that rainy day.. good luck... |
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Thu 01/03/08 03:48 PM
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 Two guys and a girl living together never works out.Even if it is your brother, there will be problems.
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If it's anything like what I think your implying (if that's how you spell it I don't know) Honesty I think we're safe in that department cuz what happens between them is gonna stay between them. I'm working 16 hours. out of each day so I think I'm safe.
I'll take yalls word for it and I'll start saving for a rainy day, or a flood.......or a tsunami. |
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If it's anything like what I think your implying (if that's how you spell it I don't know) Honesty I think we're safe in that department cuz what happens between them is gonna stay between them. I'm working 16 hours. out of each day so I think I'm safe. I'll take yalls word for it and I'll start saving for a rainy day, or a flood.......or a tsunami. Just trust me dude, I've seen this many, many times.There will be problems.I'm not implying any one thing but believe me it won't work out.
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At only 19 years of age with no previous experience of living on your own with ANY room mate, there are going to be problems.
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If it's anything like what I think your implying (if that's how you spell it I don't know) Honesty I think we're safe in that department cuz what happens between them is gonna stay between them. I'm working 16 hours. out of each day so I think I'm safe. I'll take yalls word for it and I'll start saving for a rainy day, or a flood.......or a tsunami. My daughter recently did something similar. The brother relationship got strained by the female in the way. She had her schedule, her way of doing things and the brother with her defended her actions even if the other brother felt slighted. It only worked for about two months and they moved into different houses. I told her before she moved in there would be problems. Living together is just a whole different animal then people think it is before they get there. Good Luck with that one, save your money for your own place. |
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Definatly dont let her move in unless shes homeless!
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3 weeks does seem a bit soon........it normally takes a person at least 2 years before a person really knows someone....
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Anything is possible.
My kids father and I met when I was 17, he was 18, we moved in together within a week and were together for 18 years. And we also shared houses for the first five years, until our son was one, we always shared houses with others. Anything is possible... 
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