Topic: Any Suggestions for seperatef co
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Tue 06/18/24 10:21 PM
Hi, I was separated from my wife, but after some discussion with her, she allowed me to meet my child if I give monthly maintenance. Now, I'm allowed to come and stay with her for max two days in a week. No intimate relationship, only friendship. Can such relationships exist on long term?

Duttoneer's photo
Wed 06/19/24 12:53 AM
Have you thought about marriage counselling, if you are only separated it may be a way forward, depends what you both want. If it is an irreconcilable breakdown of your marriage, it may be still worthwhile you alone speaking with a marriage/relationship counsellor for advice on your situation and because of your child, it is unlikely you will be the first to find themselves in a similar situation, they should be able to advise you.

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Wed 07/10/24 09:28 AM
I had a friend who’s marriage broke down but due to financial constraints, neither of them could afford to live alone. So they share a home (as roommates) and date other people. I guess it depends on if you can remain friends with your ex then a shared home might be possible. If either of you are still attracted to the other, this can lead to mixed signals and should probably be avoided

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Wed 07/10/24 01:40 PM
Don't do that !
In the long run you will ruin your chances of finding a more caring and loving woman ! Kids eventually grow up and leave .....
been there done that !!